True Love real?

Question

Is it real.. I'm really young and have a lot ahead of me but this is one thing I desire.. Someone who loves everything about you, worries about your safety more than their own, and will do anything to be with you? Is it real has anyone actually had it or "is love just a fairy tale." I've never seen anything like this in reality except in books but I guess most things happen behind closed doors.. Has anyone experienced it.. I just read finished New Moon if you ever heard about it and likes other books I've read.. is fantasy and fiction anything like reality or does fictional worlds exactly exist?

Answer 1

I've experienced it once. I never believed in Love at First Sight but when i saw my fiancee, i was almost brought to my knees. And he said the same thing about me. We were together for three years and it was the best three years of my life. It felt as if my heart beat only for him and everytime i looked upon him, i fell deeper and deeper in love.

We broke up about four years ago and I've never felt such strong feelings for anyone else. Not even close. I believe he was my one and only....or "soulmate" or call it what you will. I doubt it will ever happen to me again....but i do believe in love because of it. I hope there is someone else out there for me!! I hope, i hope, i hope!

Answer 2

the term True Love rubs off the same way as Real Flavour for me. anything that says real flavour is definitely not made with the real thing.

i'm pretty cynical about love, people only love people they are physically attracted to. The elephant man does not have a soul mate. but then again, maybe it's something i have to experience for myself? I'm not closed off to the possibility, but it seems like another social meme that is perpetuated in society for very good reasons. A guy is less likely to hate his soul-sucking job if he has someone he loves to go home to, or women being the same way. Very useful if you own the company that sucks. "The world is fine, because I'm in love."

Often though, I can't help but find myself in a quiet moment and desire love.

if you think you are in love and it feels amazing, what do you care if it's officially real or not?

Answer 3

thats exactly what i desire for that kind of love but i cant find it and yes i do think its real i read the twilight series too one of my favorite series sometimes fantasy is like reality not the whole wizards or vampires part but the emotions yeah

Answer 4

True love is very real, but its alot more complicated than it is in the books and movies.

For one thing, just because you find someone you love doesn't mean that the circumstances in which you find them will make you very happy (Tristan and Isolde, Romeo and Juliet, Katherine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy.)

Secondly, someone who does love you comes with their own unique history, just like yourself, and that means that any problems or conflicts still lingering in their past means they've just become your problems, a situation many people are not prepared for when they meet their 'soulmate'.

Thirdly, most people rush forward to meet their soulmate without ever stopping to think about what that means. Yes, they have to/will love you for who you are, but you have to be prepared to do the same. Wanting someone to make all the effort to be with you is a nice romantic fantasy, but if you don't also make a similar effort to be with them, and that means overcoming real obstacles, then rushing to meet your soulmate will only end in heartbreak and disappointment for both of you, neither of which will be easy to dispell since the bigger the expectectation, the greater the disappointment, and thus the greater the obstacle to be overcome to be reunited with them again.

Sad to say but many soulmates sabotage their own relationship because they didn't spend the time before meeting them preparing themselves for what was about to happen. Suppose the person you love is married (very possible) or you are both very old when you meet, or you meet young and have to wait until you are old to be together? Suppose they have smelly feet, and its not until you are with them that you realize how much you HATE smelly feet. You'd be suprised how often the little things you don't think about when you are imagining your 'one true love' can easily tear your relationship apart, and just because they are your true love doesn't mean the getting back together will be any easier.

True love is an introduction, real love is alot of work and effort and risk and suffering and wondering why and then realizing why.

Answer 5

probably for most people!...exept for criminals!

Answer 6

it is real.  i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, and we are still completely in love.  he looks at me with love in his eyes, and he has been shot over me.  it is real, and it does exist