True or False, It is better for a woman to have many lovers before marriage?

Question

This way she knows what she's looking for instead of constantly trying to get side action.

Am I right?

Answer 1

A woman who had many lovers before marriage has an extremely super high s*x drive and is always hot for s*x.  Versus a woman who is a virgin has a very low s*x drive.  A friend once told me, that virgins are extremely boring in bed. But there is a catch to this!  For woman who had many lovers before marriage IS mostly likely to cheat behind the husband's back, because of her intense, high s*x drive and lack of self control-that she can lose anytime with another. Bottom line, it all depends on the intensity of their s*x drives, s*x addiction, self control, morals and religion values and being an atheist.

Answer 2

no! get real!

Answer 3

im not sure about MANY, but i would suggest a few! lol

Answer 4

No,,, it is called baggage,,,,

Answer 5

Well, from my personal experiacne, i would always have wondered whats out there if  my husband was the first one...i know frim dating and having experinces before him that hes the one and only for me...

Answer 6

False, you are wrong.  What type of guy would want you that has had all of them guys?  Guys will evenutually look at you as a quick piece of action for thier plaesure.  

Answer 7

No no no no no no!

Answer 8

Yep.  You hit the nail right on the head buddy!  LOL

Answer 9

If its better for a man to hav many lovers before marriage,then so it is for a woman. :)

Answer 10

Not many, but enough. You don't want to be married and wondering what if...

Answer 11

Yes, experienced women know how to keep a man without getting too emotional (which is the resource of most marital problems). Someone from the past killed it already! She knows exactly what she wants from this marriage.

When your wife can be calm and rationally handle all kind of problems, even if an extramarital affair occurred, you know your wife has been around!

Answer 12

Could you edit your question and answer mine?  Did you suffer from a bitter break up?  Or do you just post these to see what you'll get of of us?  

Answer 13

True ....true .soooo true and why cant i land at least one  

Answer 14

Maybe it is both.  Maybe your wife is looking because you do not know how to "light her fire."  Maybe you just think that women are always looking for side action because you have had that happen to you.  Maybe, maybe, maybe.

Answer 15

False, because she will always compare you to the one who gave her the ultimate o****m. Also, she is more likely to play games, hide things from you, and use s*x whatever way she wants. I forgot exactly what that passage in the Bible says about Eve. It has something to do with knowledge being a woman's downfall. It applies in cases like these.

Answer 16

This is more true for men than women.  We adapt to our partners.  Usually we're second to fall in love.

Answer 17

Yes you're right, and not only that, I've also noticed that the ones who have had more lovers are much more confident and don't worry if you flirt with a cute waitress, look at another attractive woman, and are generally more capable of letting a guy be a guy.

Of course most women grossly underestimate how many guys they've slept with, but that's another question.

Answer 18

I think the trick isnt as much how many lovers (I have a friend who's consistantly had pretty bad lovers, so it wouldnt make a difference how many, if she didnt fit with any), but being clear about what you want and having a partner(s) that is willing to be open to exploring and change and secure in their relationship.  A woman may know what she wants, but those wants may change.  For instance I had a friend in a D/s relationship who "burnt out" and only wanted to be vanilla.  Things change, people change overtime.  Question is can your partner be supportive of the changes and growth. Also, I dont believe one person can fulfill all needs for most people.  The movies tell us about one true love. An example, a girl is married for years then starts thinking about a woman she knows who is bisexual and as hard as her boyfriend tries to be everything to her, he's not a woman and nor would want she want him to be.  So he can accept and trust in her love for him or not. But if he's accepting, and nurturing and supportive, she will continue to be comfortable and their relationship may evolve.  If he freaks out, says no way, she's not going to grow, instead the problem will.  But you can be married, know exactly what you want and have had many lovers or few and still not find everything in one person. Its more dependant on needs and acceptance.