Trust Issues with Mom..Suggestions??

Question

ok. I'm 18 years old, and i'm about to start school in the fall. My mom has this control over me, and never let's me hang out with my friends or even to go on a family trip. i guess because both my sisters got pregnant, not at the same time and eventually got married also. not the way my mom though it would be. but i mean come on..they were 20 years old..it's their life. i just had a feeling, they both ended up doing the same mistake, so they could get out the house. Now that they don't live their no more, she's being more strict on me. i want to show her i'm responsible and i want to learn from my mistakes without her being in my business. i know she means a lot. but i want to take chances. how can she trust me, when she doesn't even let me show her. i try talking to her but she always end up making excuses. if this keep up, i have a feeling the whole situation it's going to end up bad..and i might end up leaving the house..*sight..

Somebody help!

Answer 1

Hi, sit down with ur mom at dinner or now and say mom listen and let me talk cuz we really need to talk. not everyone is the same, i am NOT like my sisters, i want to go out and have a normal 18 yr old life. im not drinking im not having s*x im not leaving the house at 4 am im not smoking. why cant i go out once in a while with my friends to their house or to a movie? let me go i am fine on my own. i know you mean well, but im tried of it!

and see what she says, really act like you mean it too ! ok good luck i hope i helped u xoxo