Try to have a baby? ????

Question

i wanted a baby so much, i did it unsafe with my husband and he came in me, but now is a month, and im still not pregnant, is it normal? and after that we use condoms, cuz he didn't want a baby yet!!

we are both ages between 22 and 30!!

can u be not pregnant when the man came in the woman the first time?

Answer 1

There are women on here who have been trying for months and even YEARS with still no success..... don't expect it to happen right away when you both get serious about it and start trying again.... it can take up to a full year for a healthy couple to get pregnant.  

Answer 2

all i can say is some are lucky and some people arent! It takes time. And everything happens for a reason and mayb this wasnt your time. But yes this is completly normal they say only when youve been trying for 12months and you still have not concieved thats when you should see your GP.  

Answer 3

First off, just because you had unprotected s*x once does not mean that your pregnant, read up on some pregnancy information before you try to have a baby.  In order for a women to get pregnant there had to be two important things: first, you, the women, need to be ovulating, this is when your ovaries release an egg, this usually happens around 10 days after you started your last period, and second, active sperm need to enter your uterus.  This idea that you cannot get pregnant unless you are ovulating is the reasoning behind the rhythm method of birth control. So chances are that you were not ovulating at the time you had unprotected s*x.  If you really think that you can get pregnant just by having unprotected s*x once, than maybe its better that you are not pregnant, maybe you should wait to have a baby.