Trying so hard to relax!!?

Question

My husband and I have decided to have another baby. I posted a question the other day about going if the pill. Any advice on how to relax during this time. We want to get pregos ASAP but I dont want to stress out each month that goes by. I want to do this the natural way. Without charts, taking temps and so on. I feel like im pregnant now. I have lots of prego signs but I think it is all in my head. Please give advice on how to not stress over this. This should be a happy exciting time for us but Im so uptight.

Answer 1

You know what you need to do - relax and take each month as it comes. You're right to not want to immerse yourself in TTC, and I find charting and OPK really do pile the pressure on personally. I'm in the same boat as you: currently TTC, letting nature run its course. Stay patient and try to make the most of quiet time with your hubby. If possible, go out for a meal or even watch a movie at home before babydancing when you're near to ovulation. Make the whole 'ordeal' more memorable and a more relaxed affair.

Remember - don't loose faith! It can take up to a year for healthy couples to conceive. I wish you the best of luck,