Trying to find my biological father?

Question

i am 14 years old and have never met my biological father, my mom was 19 when she had me, the only thing i know about my biological father is his name, i don't know if he was my mom's age or older, or anything, all i know is that my grandma always says that i got his eyes...i found out in forth grade that the man i called dad was not my biological father because i went back to my mom's room to get her something and my birth certificate was sitting on her nightstand...i brought it up later and she kind of explained it to me, but i was in forth grade, i guess she explained it me the best she could at that point...but i really want to find my biological father, does anyone know how i could go about this? i am going into high school and i would love to find my father before i graduate, because i want him to come to my high school graduation...i don't want to talk to my mom about it because it just feels weird, because she doesn't like talking about it, she has only talked to me about him that one time in 4th grade...does anyone know how i could possibly find him? i am guessing he still lives in the same state that my mom lived in when she met him...any advise is welcomed :D

Answer 1

The easiest way to go about this is ask your mother if she knows his whereabouts.  Explain that you would like to know more about him and see if she knows any information.  He could be anywhere the way people move around today so why not start at the easiest place?  If she can't or won't help you, ask Grandma.  Then go to your mother's sisters and brothers if she has any.  Someone might know something.  From there, go to the Internet and see if there is anything on him.  From there, I just don't know.  I have a granddaughter who was in your shoes and I knew where her father was.  Once she met him she hated him.  He was NOT a good person.  Keep in mind that could be the case here too.  She saw him once before she went to his funeral.  I wish you luck Hon.  

Answer 2

OMG me 2!!!!! n fourth grade 2  ummmmmmmmmmm my mom is goin 2 hire a private investagator

Answer 3

www.peoplefinders.com

since you have his name you can use this site.

it will cost you, though, if you want a background check. but you should be able to see an address or phone number.

Answer 4

You are old enough to know the true story about your biological

father. It could be that he was married to someone else when he got

your mother pregnant. Ask your mother to talk to you about this.

Find out something about him from her before you do a search.

Answer 5

If your name is daren,you were born on june 5th,your mother is andrea and your psycho grand mother is named linda,

i am the man you are looking for son.

god i hope you are.

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if not,

go to www.whowhere.com to enter the name and location of birth father