Trying to get a baby bump! help!

Question

ok me and my fiancee are wanting to have a little one. we both decided we are ready etc. only thing is we have tried and no luck. i have gotten my period...we had a scare but turns out i was just late :-(

what are somethings i could do to boost my fertility? i know i was a bit stressed and i have reduced some of it on my part and he has too on his. i bought the book what to expect when you're expecting but no luck in there. so i need all the advice from EXPERIENCED mommies!

Answer 1

here is a website that you could benefit from reading.

http://www.4woman.gov/pregnancy/tryingto...

Answer 2

I am kinda in your shoes, i have been reading alot about primrose oil and for the men flaxseed oil ... I even have my hubby icing his boys( only did that last night) my lmp was july 31st ... i wish u all the luck in the world, it wasnt this hard with my first but that was 12 years ago, im older but hubby is 10 years younger so im blaming our past -s on stress, keep me updated check into the falx and primrose oil also stay laying down for about 20 min after wards or just do it upside down . we are gunna try that 3nite, lol

Answer 3

I am not an experienced mommy but I can offer some advice. Don't get stressed out over trying. How long have you been trying? If you just decided to start trying, give it some time. It doesn't always happen the first time you try. Some people are lucky enough for it to happen for them but for most of us it takes time. Some of us have been trying to a year and longer.

Most women usually ovulate around day 14 of your cycle. Your will have a surge around day 14, ovulation usually occurs 2-3 after that. Doctors will tell you to have s*x every other day so that the sperm stays in your system, so to speak. After s*x, prop your hips up on a pillow for at least 20 minutes for so.

It will happen for you. Be patient, don't stress out, and have fun with it.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

OK sweetie, a couple days before you ovulate...which is about 10 to 12 days after your period, have s*x at least every other day until a week past ovulation, which last about 4 days, and a week before your next expected period....Good luck and baby dust!!!

Answer 5

we had a scare ??   why would you be scared if you were trying ?

Anyway you need to find out when you O ...

count fron day 1 of your period upuntil you get to 14 that should b when  you O so do the baby dance day 12 13 14 and 15 to make sure you get the sperm to meet the egg on time also you could check your BBT but prob don't need to do that unless you have been TTC for like 6 months.

Just a bit of my own thoughts but having a baby before marriage when marriage IS PLANNED seems to be a lil out of order your wedding is going to be so stressful and that wont be good for getting prego OR good when you are PREGO

Good luck though ... and baby dust