Trying to take my clothes off while he's asleep..talking to himself alot...serious question, im worried??

Question

im quite concerned and not really sure who to talk to about this! my partner and I have been together for nearly 8 years and recently he has started to do strange things.I have noticed over the months he has started to talk to himself really bad...he'll have whole convo's...sometimes i'll think he is talking to our daughter but i check and its just him alone.The other thing that is worrying me is about 4 weeks ago i got woken up by him trying to get on me and he was pulling my pants down...i asked him what he thought he was doing but he stared at me with a blank face and then tried to stick his tounge down my throat, i again moved back and said are you right!!?and he said "kiss" then he stuck his hands down my pants and started playing with me and i yelled at him and then he started snoring and was dead to the world..the next day he had no idea and found it amusing.Last night the same thing happened...im pregnant and i wake up if anything touches my b*****s cause they hurt so i woke up straight away and he had pulled my pants down and he was rubbing my b*****s..then once again he stuck his hands down my pants...and once again when i confronted him he seemed to be asleep and didnt say anyhing to me..im sure when i ask him he'll have no recolection.Like i said we have been together for along time and this has only started happening also i will add our s*x life is fine and we have the same s*x drive...if anything mines a bit more then he's.....im a bit nervous,im worried he's losing it or something...we both have suspected for a while he might be depressed or something due to he's mood swings and distance toward our family and now theres this?i'll also add that he is 26 years old.should i ignore this or should i try to have something done about it?

Answer 1

Do your best to convince him he should have a complete physical & mental evaluation.  If he indeed suffers from some type of depression or anxiety, the doctors will be able to evaluate & determine a course of action to resolve the situation.  Sometimes, just a mild antidepressant can make all the difference in the world.  If his blood pressure, or blood sugar, etc. is out of sync - or - maybe a chemical imbalance - any number of things - a complete evaluation would surely make a great difference in his behavior.  Good Luck.

Answer 2

Let's see.   You have been together about 8 years, have one child and are pregnant.   It's about time to get married or dump him.   Take your pick.

Answer 3

i say enjoy once. let him do what he wants the whole night unless he intends to harm someone. and then see if it happens again.  if it does  dont be embarrassed to see a doctor. thats what they're there for.

Answer 4

You should talk with a doctor about it, it almost sounds like he is hypnotised.

Answer 5

agree with andy, find a good doctor that is knowledgeable about the condition and see if that's what he has

I have heard of something like that before, it might be best for you to sleep in seperate rooms till it's solved

Answer 6

oh wow... maybe he's bipolar. mood swings--> a very possible sign of being bipolar. my calculus teacher used to be like that. he would try to hit on students, [he got fired last year], and other times he would be screaming and being depressed, and sometimes he would just feel like he was on top of the world

Answer 7

There is a medical condition that causes people to try and have s*x while they are asleep and completely unaware of what they are doing (exact same way as sleep walking). He should see a doctor about it, people have gotten themselves in trouble from it, being accused of rape/attempted rape while they were asleep.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

i definitely think it's not to be ignored. address it asap. it could be a psychological disorder because it sounds like something other than depression. not to mention that many psychological illnesses can come with depression. u can have OCD and depression or mania with depression and so on. his sounds like there is another factor along with his depression. so i definitely say get some help for him.

Answer 10

give him a good night

Answer 11

If he is just now developing these strange tendencies: mood swings, depression, distance from relatives, strange activities during sleep, then something may be up.  

Bipolar sounds like a possibility, but the fact that you said he talks to himself sometimes combined with the other symptoms sound to me like a form of schizophrenia.  This would definitely something to get checked out, because there is the possibility of dangerous out-bursts and mood swings.  

I hope it's not as serious as what I described, but it's better to play it safe and get him a check-up.

Answer 12

ANY time there is a change in behavior, especially if the person is not aware of it, is a sign thsat something could be seriously wrong. Has he had a physical exam by a physician in the last year? It could be caused by many things and I wouldn't venture to guess what is the root cause, but he NEEDS to be seen by a physician ASAP.