Ttc: have you ever tried so hard it fails?

Question

Okay ive been ttc for over a year..no luck..Each month I find myself looking and searching for reasons to believe im pregnant until aunt flo comes to visit...anyone else experience this?

Answer 1

Ughhh. I know exactly how you feel. My hubby and I have been TTC for 3 years with no luck yet. It is so hard. Every time AF is late I get all excited to be let down in the end. It's so hard because all my girlfriends are pregnant and planning their baby showers and I want to be happy for them but its really hard to be when I want this sooo bad. I often wonder what I did to deserve to be going threw all of this. My mom told me that God is waiting to give me my miracle because he is making him or her extra special. That helped me alot. But it doesn't get no easier as time goes on. I wish you the best of luck and hope we ALL get our BFP soon!! Good luck hun. =]  

Answer 2

can I suggest something?  my friend was is still trying after now after more then a year.  I just started trying recently and did not want to end up like her, after a few months and not succeeding I thought I have got to do something, maybe there is something I don't know.  so I was looking around some sites and found people talking about a book called Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler  and they were praising this book up and down.  I checked it out on amazon and it has a 5/5 star rating and over 1,000 reviews, after reading some reviews I bought the book and it was so amazing and educational I could not put it down, LOL I was even forgetting to eat cause I could not stop reading.  I read it in 2 days.  

It teaches you how to chart things going on with your body to find the exact day(s) u need to try.  The book is like my bible.  I thought it was gonna take a few cycles to learn my body and the signs it giving off.  Your body is giving u signs and tells u when u are fertile and when u are not.  its fascinating.

But I have to say that my first chart I used we succeeded I tested yesterday and I am pregnant, but I already knew i was cause u can tell by looking at the chart.  My friend is still trying and I feel sorry for her.  I have recommended the book to her but some people think "why do I need a book for something like that"?   The charting DOES work.  if u don't want to take my word for it check out the reviews on amazon.

This is the easiest and less stressful way and its very affective.  I highly recommend this book and I am sure u will too.  I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 3

Yes :-( but I was only trying for 4 months. We stopped for a couple of months and now we're trying again. Good luck!

Answer 4

Sweetheart Stay Strong Im Dealing With The Same Thing. I Just Try To Stay Say Positive Yes I Have my Melt Downs But I Pull Myself Back Up & Tell Self...

"I'M SPECIAL SO THATS MEANS MY BABY HAS TO BE EXTRA SPECIAL SO GOD IS TAKING A LITTLE MORE TIME ON MY BABY AND WHEN MY BABY IS PERFECT AND FLAWLESSLY MADE I KNOW GOD WILL GIVE ME HIM OR HER....."

So Hun Please Stay Positive...And Keep Telling Your Self My Extra Special Baby is Coming...

*Stay Stress Free*

Answer 5

YES you are in the right place thats for sure.

i do the same thing every month until aunt flo shows up and then its a complete melt down. Hard enough on me that i dont want to ever try again but then i find my self wanting to try again.

I completely understand 110 % !

Answer 6

WOW reading some of these answers broke my heart :-(  I was surprised to see someone talk about the Taking Charge of Your Fertility book on here cause not alot of people know about that.  I tried for almost 2 yrs and was heartbroken every month.  I did buy and use the book that Layla is talking about and we were pregnant ofter just 2 cycles :-)  its a very easy system.  And something I will continue to use it for the rest of my life because not only can u use it to get pregnant but u can use it as birth control and also to detect anything wrong with you before u have symptoms.  It was the most amazing book I have ever read.  I don't know why they don't teach the stuff in that book in s*x ed the information in that book is something every girl should know.

PLEASE ALL OF YOU STILL TRYING AFTER A YEAR OR GOOD GOD AFTER 3 YRS PLEASE TAKE LAYLA'S ADVICE, read that book.  Its a no fail system.  HUGS to you all and good luck.