Tunisian guy?

Question

Met a tunisian guy over in port el kantaoui. All the guys called me beautiful but i was cynical but this guy seemed genuine.

Though since i came home he has not stopped texting or ringing and seems over eager ... Is he just looking for a betterlife and a visa... I think so.

Honest advice from tunisian men would be nice x

Answer 1

While I'm not a Tunisian man, I AM an American married to a Tunisian and I can tell you that they do not all want women for visas. In fact, I now live in Tunisia with my husband and it was I who brought up him getting a Green Card (8+ years into our relationship) because my mom has health issues and I want to move back to the US to take care of her.

There are good and bad men from every country, so you do need to be careful. The bad apples are looking for one of two things. They either want a girl for sexual pleasures, or they want one for a quick marriage so they can get citizenship in another country.

That being said, a visa (later citizenship) is not something that is guaranteed just because they are dating or married to you. There are certain requirements that the government sets out that MUST be met by the person applying for the visa (this man you met). If he cannot meet those requirements, even if you are married, he will be denied a visa. It's as simple as that.

The good news is that most of the guys aren't like that though. Most guys are looking for someone that they can truly love and share a life with. So why not look to Tunisian girls, you ask? Because from personal experience the girls are very petty, controlling, they don't have an open view of the world, and they play mind games with the guys. Once she gets her claws in him, she is EXTREMELY reluctant to let him go, no matter how much he tells her he doesn't love her anymore. Not all girls are like that, but from my experience, most girls (98%) are. I have Tunisian girl friends that aren't like that. But that is why they look to others. They want a woman who will act civilized and respectable.

My husband and a lot of his friends are married to foreigners and they are all good guys who never cheated on any of us. They have treated us with respect and dignity and showered us with love and affection. I have never gone without, we go on many European trips a year, and I am able to visit my family in America once a year for 3 months (length of ticket before it expires).

I also have many male friends that are, of course, Tunisian, and they are just looking for a girl that has similar values, a good character, and good morals. They don't care if she is Tunisian, Chinese, American, British, or any other nationality as long as she can be a loving and caring partner.

I believe that since he is making an effort to contact you (calling and texting international from Tunisia is VERY expensive!) is a good indication that he is being serious. I don't know too many men that would spend almost 1TDN a minute to call internationally to a girl they do not have only the best intentions with.

Long distance relationships (no matter who they are with) can work, but do take more time, attention, dedication, trust, honesty, communication, and work.

My best advise is to take things slow. Listen not only to what he says to you, but how he says it. Be upfront and truthful to each other about everything. If you have a disagreement or a misunderstanding, talk about it and get it cleared up right away - do NOT push it under the rug and hope it will solve itself, because they never do. Also, have fun and live life in the moment. If you get too caught up in what could happen, or wondering what will happen, you will miss out on all the wonderful things that are happening right now. Like any relationship, some work and some don't. Enjoy what you have right now.

If you ever need to talk to someone, or if I can be of any help or assistance, please feel free to contact me anytime.

Answer 2

he wants a uk passport you silly girl

Answer 3

the answer from TunisianBelle is very true and detailed. You should take it from her. Let me just add that I have a guy from Tunisia, and I live in Serbia... I had never felt so loved, respercted and apreciated as I did with him.... believe me, give it a try, it all depends on you two like in every relationship in this world, you will have good and bad moments but it is all worth it :)

Answer 4

did he ask you all sorts of questions about the uk?? if yes, then i believe he is looking for a visa...if not then give the guy a chance maybe he is actually interested in you.  relationships formed abroad can actually happen and work out :)

Answer 5

Its a tricky one this.  I have a 58 year old friend who is married to a tunisian 28 yr old.  hes lived over here for 4 years now and is still with her.  having said that he hasnt been granted his visa yet.  

She has 3 friends all her age and they all married tunisian men younger.  Every one of them has since left their wives and disappeared into uk life.