Turn Off or Does it make him want me more

Question

ok so my ex is being mean to me calling ugly but then he calls me gourgeous and pretty..hes mean to me when ever he gets a new gf. and i still like him alot. and 2 really pretty girls like him 2. is it a turn off to give him alot of attention and texting him ..like does it make it look like im desprete...or is it a turn off to tell hima turn off and tell him to not talk to me.thanks so much :)

Answer 1

hey i hav a friend like that. hes been tellin me that hes textin his ex tha whole time he was soccer camp with me and my firneds....

but if u relly think hes tellin tha truth then go for itt

Answer 2

It's a total turn off for him to get a lot of attention. He wants the girl that is too good for him, that is "better" then he is, that won't give him the time of day. Not the girl that "is always there and won't go away".

Answer 3

Play hard to get and he will be wondering why are you not following him.

Plus guys loves girls who are hard to get

Play games with him like text him one day be flirty and the next day totally ignore him and he will be wondering want did he do....

AND be kind of mysterious when you are talking to him

Act like he is not all that and try to look your best to make him jealous  

Answer 4

don't waste your time. he will wonder what your doing if you aren't anywhere to be found, but why waste your time on someone who emotionally abuses you? You should find someone who adores you and wants you, not you and five other girls too. you deserve better and if you keep hanging around him when he treats you bad then your allowing him to do it and it won't stop he'll take advantage. he clearly isn't interested in you and so you should be strong confident and walk away and even if he tries to come back keep walking you'll have more self respect in the end and be happier cause you'll find someone who totally likes you for everything you are and doesn't put you down. thats not how all guys treat girls, don't put up with it.

Answer 5

Guys like a challenge. You know how guys like fighting and violence? Well when they can't get what they want, life becomes it's own weird battle field. Give him plenty of space and he'll come to you. Good luck!  

Answer 6

I think the better question is, why would you want to text or call or pay any attention to some jerk who calls you ugly? You're better off without him. Move on. You'll find someone better.