Twin boys not pottytrained?

Question

my cousin has twin boys that will be 6 years old on christmas they are supposed to be starting kindergarten this year, but they are still in diapers...she hasnt even tried to potty train them and they still have pacifiers and bottles. my question is when do you think childerens services should get involved? She's really just lazy and not a good parent. her 13 year old daughter is on the shot because she(the daughter) has a 17 year old boyfriend that lives with them...and sleeps with her 13 year old daughter. should i call childerens services as a mom i'm worried about these kids

Answer 1

My goodness 6 and not potty trained my son was pt before he was two. I couldn't imagine changing a 6yr olds diaper when my 19month is tough enough. I would talk to her first then if she doesn't smarten up then take action.

Answer 2

Because they are twins I have to ask - do they have a medical reason for all of this - if not I would have called child protective services years ago. This is crazy. She is neglecting the twins and the 13 she is almost pimping her out to say it in nice terms. Yes social services need to be called today and I'm sure that they will take the kids away, give the mother a chance to take parenting classes and learn how to be a parent. Each second longer that you wait is hurting these children. Please pick up the phone and call now.

Answer 3

holy cow yes yes yes like right now  

Answer 4

you could at least call them and report it....that woman needs a reality check!

Answer 5

God, I hope you are joking...if not you need to call...if you are, then you need a new hobby.

Answer 6

yah id say a call to cps would do good....6 years old and in diapers? come on, thats just sick.

Answer 7

Yes.

Answer 8

Someone seriously needs to intervene and get these poor children the h**l out of this situation. A public school will not be responsible for changing a child's diaper, especially in a Kindergarten class! This is quite disturbing.

Answer 9

OMG....that is NOT RIGHT.  I work at a daycare and those kids must be fully potty trained at age 3.

That is sad, these kids will be made fun of sooo bad.

But I am positive they will not be allowed in kindergarten without being potty trained because they do not have changing tables in the rooms, so they will probably get kicked out eventually.

Answer 10

I can't believe I'm saying this, but, Yes, report her. You'll be doing those kids a huge favor. That's neglect!

Answer 11

yeah that needs to be reported as neglect. Very sad what she is doing to those kids.