Twins- dont you think that its annoying when your sis/bro go everywhere with you

Question

I'm tired of my sister going to all my friends sleepovers and parties. I haven't found a way to ask them to only invite me. They think shes such an angel, so much fun. but if they found out how selfish she was at home- she'd be friendless in a minute! shes just so cliche- all her timeless jokes. how can i get some independence???

Answer 1

sometimes

Answer 2

If your friends like her and find her endearing then perhaps it's just plain old sibling rivalry that makes you see her as selfish. Help her find other friends, and occasionally share your friends with her so she doesn't feel left out, but if that is an impossibility, make other friends, join clubs and just keep them quiet.

Eventually she will find out and you will have to be prepared to tell her that you love her dearly, and that nothing will change the fact that you are sisters but sometimes you need space and individual interests.

You may be twins but your interests do not have to be the same, encourage her to do separate things also.

Things will change, talk to her and explain your feelings, maybe she feels the same way about you!

Good Luck x

Answer 3

well u can tell her to give u some space time for your self. or you can make your friends see what shes really like. that how i got my indepence my sis always want to go with me every were and mom made me take her. shell get the idea that you and your friends wnaqt to hang with out here there. i hope it helped

Answer 4

You can take care of this problem in just one minute!

Tell your friends how selfish she is. You said so yourself, "She'd be friendless in a minute!

Answer 5

My best friends are twins, and they hate it. Sienna said if Lena does something embarrassing  she feels embarrassed too. They hate being together all the time, but their so competitive that neither of them can stand to be left out. I think everyone sisters (definitely mine lol) are selfish and mean at home but nice to everyone else. I probably am to lol. I think you should tell her casually one Friday "Hey I'm going to so-and-so's party" and like walk out the door real fast. Or if she asks to go along say "Why dont you call up this person?" Good luck! Please answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Love Haleigh<3

Answer 6

you know what i would do is get a camera, tape you sis/bro when there home then show yo friends the way they act, i did that because my sister was friends with my friends so i taped her how she acts at home and showed it to my firends and then they wernt freinds, she cried for a few minutes but she got ova it:)