Two poll questions!?

Question

1) If you grew up without knowing who your father was (and he did not know about you), and then you found out, would you want to meet him? Would you want him to be your father?

2) If you grew up without your father because he left even though he knew about you, and then you found out who he was, would you want to meet him? Would you want him to be your father?

Answer 1

so hard

Answer 2

1) If i was really miserable, and everything didnt seem to be complete in my life without him, then yes.

2) i would want to know what the real reason is. but

seriously my answer to both basically is yes AND no

if i was meant to see him

then obviously i did.

but i guess i could live without him bcos not bcos you dont have a father doesnt mean you cant go on with your lifee

Answer 3

1) I did grow up without knowing who my father was, found out, met him (when I was 20). He is now my friend but I don`t consider him my father except in a biological sense.

2) Yes I would want to meet him, after all he probably left for all sorts of reasons that had nothing to do with you. I would hope to develop some sort of relationship with him.