Two questions. First of all, I am VERY insecure of wearing my hair down..........?

Question

Today is the summer and I know it is early for me to ask this question but I will be leaving for a vacation so I need to ask this question early. In September, the school will start and I am VERY insecure of wearing my hair down. In school, I have been wearing my hair up in a bun and it brings my self esteem down, so I think it is time for a change so I've decided to wear my hair down in high school. I am EXTREMELY insecure and I am afraid that it will MATTER when I am hearing impaired!!! I just don't know what to do! I have got many compliments about my hair and they said wear it down but I can't! Because of feeling insecure! What to do?!

And I have asked this question but I need more answers. I talked to my friend online and I told her that I will switch my instrument to percussion and she said "I don't think percussion fits you." I switched to percussion from bass clarinet so does it fit me or not?!

Thanks!

Answer 1

i had the exact opposite fear. i hated wearing my hair up!

my suggestion is to experiment with it. try parting it on different sides. maybe pin your bangs back or something.

you can even try a half up half down look. those a really cute.

Answer 2

you will probably get lots of compliments if you start wearing your hair down, i know i did when i started. i go to a school where there were over 1,000 freshmen last year. some were hearing impaired, and nobody ever teased them or anything. we all got along pretty well for the most part. if you wanted to switch from clarinet to percussion, then it's you, because it's something you wanted.

Answer 3

First off: I know absolutely NOTHING about instruments so I can't help you there.

Second: I had the same insecurity about my hair. First it was I hated to wear it up, but then I got a hair cut (which everyone but me thought was amazing) so then I always wore my hair up, but I finally just got embarrassed that I was afraid to wear my hair down.

What makes you insecure about your hair?

Is it the hair cut?

Try to go online and pick out haircuts that will suit you and bring the to the hairdresser and pick out a new one. Start wearing your hair down around the house to get your confidence up. Then wear it down around friends, this way, by school you will be used to people seeing your hair down!

This is what I am doing and it really is working! I went half a school year wearing a ponytail or messy bun EVERY single day of school!!

Good Luck (:

-Catherine