Ok well this is sort of complicated but I'll put it as simply as I can. I'm English and I have just moved to USA to live with my Dad about three months ago. I never knew him before this, he used to pay my boarding school fees but that was it. But he stopped paying and because my mum didn't want me at home all year she said my dad had to take me instead.
My dad doesn't like the way I speak and he gets really annoyed about it because English words don't have the same meaning as American words, like I call my evening meal tea and he calls it dinner. He doesn't like my accent either and when people ask him if I'm British he denies it. He wants me to say I'm American but I'm not. He gets really mad when use English slang and he is always trying to get me to speak like an American. How can I tell him to stop without offending him? I can't change the way I speak, it's just part of me.
My second question is how do I get him to stop spanking me, I'm really uncomfortable with him doing it. My mum never used to hit me. The first time he did it I thought he was bluffing until he took his belt off and put me over his knee. It hurt and I barely know the guy really. I'm 14 and please don't suggest I hit him back like my friends have, I'm seriously short for my age and he is huge. I'm 4â€Â3 and he's 6â€Â4. I told my mum and she says it's up to my dad how he wants to deal with me. Any ideas?
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