We dated for 4 years but he started drinking after our wedding. Now when he drinks he becomes mean, nasty, short tempered, and often shows poor judgement in social settings. Example: we were at an affair and he became drunk and left me and started dancing with another man's wife. We had just met the couple and had agreed to get together. Although I appologized to them in email later needless to say they never contacted us again. He has only family and no friends and no social life other than mine. I have told him that I will no longer invite him to be a part of my social life which means I will have to go alone. Unfortunately women are left out of events when they are alone or have to go home early when there is dancing and the event is couples. He is unable to stop drinking. When he is not drinking he is a very nice husband and we have fun but anytime there is alcohol he can not stop himself. We have been married 2 years. I am 60 and he is 50. If he were a nice drunk that would be different. Any suggestions?
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