UGH. GROSS! X0( What should I do?

Question

OK. This is kind of embarrassing (please no rude comments) A few days ago me and my boyfriend were having s*x. It was upstairs in my bedroom and I closed the blinds just so no one could see (the bed is across from the window, and the neighbors can see the bedroom and who's sleeping and such). Anyways, it was hot so I opened up the window to get some air while the blinds were still closed. So I was on top of my boyfriend and I was having s*x and then I looked up and saw that the neighbor was staring at us through the window (the wind moved the blinds). I quickly rolled under the sheets and then my boyfriend went out for a little while afterwards. Now when I was outside yesterday the neighbor was just staring at me and then he started to giggle and he said nice *** ****** and I told him to stfu fat pig and I picked up the waterhose and sprayed them. Then he got really drunk and he started banging on my door at night and my boyfriend went to go check and then the neighbor ran away.

I don't want to get the police involved and I want to try and take care of the situation on my own. What should I do?

Answer 1

BANG HIM HARD

Answer 2

Please call the police... I am a guy and I would call the police if this happen to my girlfriend for sure. (But I am in Canada and Canadian laws are different. Here he can be permanently moved by forced to a different city if a court order it.)

Answer 3

You need to tell him where to go. He is obviously a perv. He made a point of looking into your window, so he has some sort of issue. I would warn him off, but if that doesn't work just threaten him with the police, or that you'll tell his wife or something and hopefully he'll back off.

Good luck.

Answer 4

well i don't really know what you could do on your own without getting the police involved but have you tried threating him or having your boyfriend do it bc that is not right for that man to have done that. i really don't think there is anything you can do maybe call the police and just ask them what you could do and they might be able to help without getting involved. Hope you get that peeping tom to leave you alone bc it is gross i feel sorry for you.

Answer 5

Ok well you need to tel that guy to P***k off, does he have a wife,friends if so tell them that they need to controle him!, if he soesnt i would tell his other neighbour, If not get your bf to handle him, hes a pig and a perv, i would also suggest that you switch bedrooms or get curtains

Answer 6

If you're not willing to involve the police (you *should*), then the next best thing to do is involve the neighbour's family and others by telling them about it in detail - his wife, children, parents, boss, friends... whatever - and asking *them* for help.

He needs to be stopped.