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Question

my husband and i got divorced a couple months ago. he started dating a girl and im with another guy. i havent told him yet because hes paying me child support. if i tell him im with someone else will it make him jealous, and will it ruin our chances of ever getting back together in the future? i want to eventually. im not happy in my relationship now.

Answer 1

Hey Carrie~

The best thing to do is keep the lines of communication open between you and the ex.  Maybe you should just tell him the next time he picks up your child(ren) and say something like, "I just want to be honest with you and let you know that I am trying to date again, but I find it difficult.  So don't be surprised if you hear that I'm seeing someone.  Its very difficult to find a relationship that compares to what I had before, but I'm going to at least try."

That way you are giving him the hint that you are not totally over your relationship with him and there could be a chance to reconciliation, but he may not be ready just yet since the divorce is new.  And this way, you can continue to date this new guy OR someone else, so you can really get a feel for your true feelings about your ex.  It may take a while for him to get on the same page as you, so be PATIENT!!!

Hang in there Girlie!!!!  And remember to smile--EVERYDAY!

Answer 2

ill go out with you babe

Answer 3

ProTip:  tell him your new boyfriend has a bigger phallus.

Answer 4

You asked in

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Most of the questions here are about puns, abbreviations and riddles. You would get dozens of answers if you asked in

Family & Relationships > Singles & Dating

or another F&R category.

They would all be guesses. He might be the kind to say "I'll never see that two-timing B*tch again!" and he might be the kind to say "I'd better drop out of the honey-of-the-month club and get back with her before it is to late!"

Your chances of getting back together is slim, judging from all of the people I've known who divorce. A divorce is about the bitterest thing two people can do to each other. They are NEVER "friendly".

Plus, even if you want to, it doesn't sound like he is whispering your name into his pillow at night. His new girl, I'll bet, is either younger, prettier, bigger busted or a better cook than you; maybe two of the four.

I hope this helps. I fear there are no solutions for your problem, save a new love.

If you want to know what comes twice in a week but once in a year, this is the place, though.

(The letter "e".)

Answer 5

Please stop playing games with your ex.  If you want him back, tell him.  Don't try to make him jealous with another guy you don't even like.