URGENT! WHAT CAN I DO?

Question

I WROTE MY MOTHER A LETTER AND I EVEN EMAILED HER. I TOLD THAT I REALLY NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP AND SHE SAID THAT SHE WOULD GET ME SOME. BUT SHE HASN'T SO FAR. I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I FEEL THAT I MAY HAVE TO HARM MYSELF BEFORE SHE OR ANYONE ELSE HELPS ME. TODAY I ASKED HER FOR THE LAST TIME. I SAID GET ME SOME HELP OR I'M LEAVING. I'M 15YRS. CAN I DO THAT? I'LL BE 16 IN DECEMBER. I REALLY WANT TO LEAVE AND NEVER LOOK BACK AGAIN. HER AND HER MOTHER ARE REALLY PUSHING ME. I FEEL THAT I HAVE NOWHERE ELSE TO TURN. SO IF ANY OF YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS,ANYTHING. PLEASE DON'T HESITATE TO COMMENT!!!! PLEASE!

Answer 1

hi

there is info on the internet, try www.teendepression.org/

while in school you can talk to a guidance counselors or at church you can talk to a pastor about your feelings. NOTHING is worth doing anything as drastic as harming yourself...and if your mom wont help try calling your family dr. and asking him to help you talk to your mom...Good Luck and I am sure things will work out if you just reach out in the right direction for help!

Answer 2

First of all, don't do anything to harm yourself. Just breathe, and know that there is help, and maybe your mother isn't going to help you.

I understand that you don't want a # to a hotline. And I don't blame you. But, something that you don;t know is that calling your local behavioral health hotline, or a suicide hotline is that if you explain the situation to them, and ask for help from a psychologist or a psychiatrist.  

They can connect you with some local programs that will pay for the visits, and a visit to a professional.  

This does not mean that you're crazy. It just means that you are not in a good situation, and these are the people that will help you.

Also, I know that your mom won't let you see your dad and grandmother, but do you have their phone numbers?  

If you call them, and tell them what's going on, express just how much you are seriously ready to hurt yourself, and leave, they are adults. They can go over your mothers head, and push past her to get you help.  I suggest calling them, talking to them and telling them what's going on.

You really need to talk to a professional.

Good luck sweetie!

I wish you all the best in the world***

Answer 3

yes do call a goverment agencey for help or ask to talk to a nerse at the doctor who can make a referal for you. you have to get help on your own darlin. its free to call a help line and they are trained to help youths in your position thats why their there remember!  

Answer 4

Look I cannot give you an advise because you are to young to make this kind of decisions. But If I were in your shoes talk to a close relative that can help you and give you a place to live until you reach 18. Another thing becarful with people outthere is so many bad people, so  many want like to hurt kids. I'm sorry for what happen, good luck to you, and please don't make any fullish mistake.

Dr. Salgado

Answer 5

First STOP SHOUTING AT US! God helps those who help themselves. If God be for you, who can be against you. See site below to help yourself. Your mother will get hers someday and make sure to be around so you can see it.

Answer 6

can you talk to a good friend who will listen

you don't really say what the problem is, why your mother says you are stupid, crazy, etc.

maybe a school councillor can help

don't so quickly start taking psychiatric meds

they may not help

taking care of yourself, eating healthy, sleeping more can help

do things to make yourself happy, a funny movie, some chocolate

email me if you like

read a website like curezone.com

Answer 7

LISTEN...You need to seek help on your own. Where do you live? Visit your local church and speak with the pastor.  Im sure they have youth programs, and if they dont, they can tell you where to go.  ending your life maybe the worse decision you can ever make! Also, try to think positive. Just the fact that you are breathing is a blessing.  DO you have any friends? You should make some good friends which you can depend on.  If you dont have any friends, you can meet some at a youth group or something at church

Answer 8

I don't know what country you are in, but here in Australia, we have agencies that can do mediation between children and their parents, and help them heal their relationships.

Are you afraid you are going to do something to yourself because of the pain you are in?

It sound as though the realtionship you have at home is very toxic.

Some thing that maybe you can think about to try and remember that you actually have some power in your relationship is that although your parents have the right to parent you, you have the power to actually let them.

You do have the right to actually believe in yourself, even if they don't. You have been created for a purpose so don't do anything silly and rash, no matter how hard things get.

Mel

Answer 9

If you don't seek advise yourself, nobody will find it for you! Your mom loves you but she doesn't know that you can't simply walk to the nearest psychiatric! Therefore, do it yourself! see a Dr., explain ALL what you feel and your Dr. will definetly help you, you'll start feeling better within only few days after you start taking prescribed medication!

Hope this helps...

Answer 10

Look in the phone book - yellow pages:  social worker, counselors, psychologist.  Even though you may not have the money -Call a licensed social worker (MSW or LCSW) and tell your situation to them over the phone- they will know the local resources in your area that can help you get the help that you need!  Really!  It sounds like you can't count on your mom in that department.  I know from experience too (similiar mom)

Answer 11

is there an adult you can talk to other than them. sounds like you are on your own, maybe another adult can get you the help you need. maybe. dont listen to the immature people who tell you to kill yourself, that is not the way, once you move out you can go about your life the way you want to