Ugghh. Highschool drama. Please give advice.?

Question

My old friend and I got into a huge argument over summer. People have been asking both of us what happened, but when they ask her she makes up lies and said i was being mean to her. All the things that she said to me, she is telling people that I said those to her! Now some people think that I was a 13itch to her, when honestly she started the whole thing? Any advice?

Answer 1

depends if you want her back as a friends, if you do just confront her and see if she has a reasonable or genuine reason as to why she said that to everyone instead of taking the blame.  she may be saying it so she gets everyone on her side before your side of the story comes out for attentions or so that she doesnt look bad first.

Hope all turns out ok for you xx

Answer 2

honestly, when the people tell you what she said about the fight that you got into, if it isn't true just tell them to believe what they want and walk away. It's just high school bull and everybody wants to be involved in everybody's business. When they ask what happened between you just be a smarta**, "Oh, wow (insert other girl's name here) you went for a full body make over?"

When they look confused or ask what you mean...tell them what happened between you and her is your guy's business and nobody else's. Sure, they might call you a 13itch and say mean things about you but it will wear off. Don't care what other people think or say about you unless you know it's true. I've dealt with it, we've all dealt with it in some degree or another and all we have to decide is whether we want to be the bigger person or drop down to everyone else's level.

Good Luck.

feel free to message me if you want to talk more.

*~*synsbabygirl*~*~

Answer 3

just dont care about it...

you know whats true and you are the only person tht matters in this situation..

ignore it and she will stop...

like i saiid YOU know whats true..

thts just gossip.  

Answer 4

i no this sounds lame but it ALWAYS works: talk it out calmly wit her and tell her your side and listen to her, i mean maybe u were bein mean to her or she misunderstood sumthin

Answer 5

oh you are in that stage where one rumor will spread like a forest fire on a hot California day.

don't stress over it, let them believe what they want.

show off you intelligence by not retaliating and spreading gossip about her.

; )  

Answer 6

you could be fake nice

or just make up with her so she'll clear your name

Answer 7

I deal with this a lot! But i get called a s**t instead of a 13itch. Im really athletic and i hang out with a lot of guys but thats because i have 3 brothers and i know what they are talking about. people say im only close to guys because i hookup with them all the time. but anyway! sorry got off track! umm Have you confronted her about it? if you have and she is still telling lies then you need to go on with your life and let her know that it doesnt bother you even if it really does. She will eventually get tired of trying to trash talk you if its not working. If you havent confronted her then you need to and you need to tell her that it bothers you that she tells lies about you to people and that you wanna be friends because its probably something stupid that yall are fighting about. and there is no point in losing a friend over a petty argument.

Answer 8

try talking to her about it and let her know you don't like how things are going. that doesn't mean that u too have to become friends again right then and there. you can let her know that shes being immature and you don't have to tell everyone else wat happened bc you know the truth.  

Answer 9

K.....Be the bigger person it will help you in the end. Don't say anything about it cause its just drama. Tell people that they shouldn't judge because they weren't there. It will probably blow over next couple days and no one will remember anything.  

Answer 10

You guys should sit down and talk about it. All the  "he said she said" will only make matters worse. Both of you should admit your mistakes. Good luck!