Ugh I fxcken hate my mum?

Question

Seriously she is not normal.

She is so overprotective.

She said she won't let me go out by myself till I'm like SIXTEEN. That is seriously crazy. I've tried talking to her and compromising but still she wont. She never tries to accept and doesn't listen.

No one ever convinces her and she's so stubborn on her word.

To be honest I think she has no life. She doesn't work or anything. To busy "taking care of me".

Btw I'm fourteen. and I seriously can't stand it anymore, I can't wait or be patient. And thanks to her, I have like no life. I don't like going out with her trailing along. D:

Answer 1

You need to talk to your dad maybe he can talk to her or your school counselor

Answer 2

My mom is sort of the the same way.

My parents are divorced, and I am 12, and have little dependence.

Try going out when she is occupied doing something, or go to a friends house where she knows the mom or dad there.

Answer 3

Yer sounds like shes a pain in the **** like mine. Pretty much the same round ere- I'm 15 and my mum tells me 'you're still a child'. She doesn't listen to me, thinks she's right all the time. She's so bloody aggravating and childish.



Likes to make life harder as well... I've had to book doctors appointments in secret after she didn't allow me treatment for a few serious problems because she is close minded and preoccupied with being right...

Can't wait till i leave home :\

If you can't stand it then ignore her restrictions on your life.

Answer 4

From the sounds of your nasty attitude... she's treating you just the way you deserve to be treated. I bet mom has some insight into you and your antics. You sound bitter that she loves you so much... boohoo poor you! If you want to be treated like an adult you need to start showing her that you can make good decisions. Way to go mom!!!!! Good for you!!!

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I didn't say that you weren't treating her well. I'm sure you're a wonderful girl and treat her great. What I'm saying is that you need to prove to her that you can be trusted.

Hey, why don't you have a talk with her about how you can gain her trust. Ask her "Mom, what can I do to begin having some independence. What can I do to prove to you that I'm trust worthy." If she says that its not you, its everyone else in the world. I'm sorry, but I actually agree with her.

I live in Edmonton, Alberta Canada. I thought that it was a nice safe city. Then this happened:

http://www.lastlinkontheleft.com/e2005co...

It was a nice young 13 year old girl who was at the mall. Decided to go to a party with some kids she had befriended. They took her to a golf coarse and then raped and murdered her.

Now that's probably what your mom is trying real hard to avoid. I personally agree with her keeping an eye on a 14 year old, you're not ready to be left alone. But this is the time when you need to start showing mom that you can make good decisions so that when you are 16 (like she said) that she'll give you a little more control.

Give mom a break... she just loves you so much that she couldn't stand the thought of anything bad happening to you. You're her baby and you will be forever. The world is such a rough place. So once again I say... keep up the good work mom.

Answer 5

Please dont hate your mom.  Say you dislike her.  Ask her if a friend can come over to stay alnight then the next time ask if you can go to her house.  Be  good while she is at your house so she will trust yo going to hers.  If your dad wont talk to  her get another family member to help.. Its true she is being over protective  but you have got to get her to  trust you.