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Ugh... any tips at all at all? few more suggestions?

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K, so i really like my boyfriend and i want to please him but god dam it i cant make him ***!!! I **** him but ones hand get tired ya no?

He is happy with kissing but i reali wanna please him...

So. how long does it normally take?

Any tips?

Grr?

Thanks :) (im not exactly, cough, experienced but either is he)

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  1. Don't just concentrate on trying to use your hand to bring him to o****m

    Continue what you were doing i, kissing , cuddling , carressing .

    As you do this slowly undo his pants , and firstly just start gentle rubbing . You really need to build arousal not just rush to m********e him . I think you will find if you do this loong enough and gradually work up to masturbating it should get him to o****m

    You say that you do not want to perform oral , which is fine as you should never be made do something you feel uncomfortable about . But perhaps you might reconsider this at some stage , many women do actually enjoy this process

    If your boyfriend can actually o****m when he masturbates , there is no physical issue , it is just down to practise and learning just what does get him going !


  2. It really depends on how fast you are pumpin the gas.

    You need to be moving your hand up and down pretty much as fast as you can. If you go slower it's suprising how much longer it takes.

  3. well try some other methods.

  4. If your boyfriend is happy with just kissing, maybe he isn't ready for anything else, and if he isn't you can pull on it all you want, it wont work.

    If you really want to please him, listen to what he tells you.

  5. well i love it when my gf

    jerks me off

    try giving him a b job

    first

    then later on try to make him c.u.m

    i dont really know any good techniques

    you just gotta keep trying and find

    a way that makes it easy

    good luck :]

    i dont think i really helped lol..

  6. Well, you can always give him a BJ. But if that's not your bag, get creative.

    Make sure you're using some kind of lube. It can actually hurt more than help if it's too dry. Any kind of lube will work, just stay away from petroleum products. They are no bueno.

    If one hand gets too tired, switch hands. I know that sounds dumb because if you're right handed, your left hand won't do very well. But trust me, I've been switching my hands with my husband and now I'm the same at both. :) Always make sure you go fast, and try to not to change momentum. If you have a good rhythm going and you can see that he likes it, it messes him up if you change speed and you have to start from scratch. As you're stroking back up, twist your wrist a little and let your fingers glide over the head as you go back down. The head's where the most sensation is to them.

    I say this next bit with wariness: you could try playing with his balls. Be extra extra extra careful though, guys' balls are easily injured. Never squeeze them. But you can stroke them gently, or even l**k them if you're up to it.  

  7. use your mouth

    us girls usually cant give good handjobs because we don't have penises!

    we dont know how to hold or stroke it...

    it's much easier with your mouth, if your comfortable with that

    and guys absolutely love bj's, there's no such thing as a bad one (because after all a girl is sucking on their peepee), so with practice u can only get better

  8. apart from your hand try your mouth or rubbing his p***s between your b*****s if his p***s is going anywhere near your v****a make sure it's in a little rubber overcoat

  9. get a soft blanket or a soft shirt and rub his d**k with that.

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