Ugh im so freaking depressed. plz help!!!?

Question

ok so i moved 2 years ago and (as u can imagine) it took me a while to make friends and now they all hate me and the only ones that dont are going to different schools next year and now i have like no one to eat with or hang out with and im so tired of trying so hard to make people like me all the time and pretending to be happy and its seriously eating me alive. and im really dreading going back to school because i swear once 1 bad thing happends alot of other things start happening too and i cant even control it and i seriously dont think ill even make it through the 1st semester but im not allowed to switch schools. and im so sick of having no one to talk to or tell my feelings to so wut should i do?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

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Answer 3

Don't "try" and fit in...and...despite this sounding cheesy...don't change yourself, in order to fit in, because at the end of the day, you want to be around people who like you, for who you really are, not the person you're trying to be...Also...you need to adopt a "don't give a fu*k" stance...the less you care about the posers, etc. the more people will take notice...you'll make friends, everyone does....(except Hitler - LoL)

Stay up...

Answer 4

Having friends in high school isn't as important as you think. Most people don't really like me and I'm getting along just fine.. well.. sorta. Concentrate on other things, this is a hard time in your life and you're going to have to cope.

Answer 5

I know our peers are so important to us because in our growth and development they are essential elements to keep us mentally and emotionally stable..

For those who hate you, i suggest you have a talk with them try to sort things out maybe you can restore the harmony you once had..tell them how you feel..

For those who are transferring schools just continue to communicate with them, it doesn't mean that because they are miles away they can't help you out or lend an ear..

Regarding your problem with having no one to eat with or hang out with hmmm for now i can say keep yourself busy, concentrate on your studying and other curricular activities, join the math club or band or the drama club, maybe you can find new friends to hang out with from there..

Don't push yourself just to make other people like you.. you can't please everyone..if they like you then they do but if they don't then okay they don't.. you are only hurting yourself. just think that it's their loss..

Always remember you're a great person..and you can face this challenge.. whenever you have problems you can always go back to the basics-FAMILY- try to open up to your mom or dad or your siblings..

or have a talk with your guidance counselor. :)

Answer 6

awww...

don't worry...as long as you have good friends...who cares if they go to the same school...

there are girls in my school who don't like me and try to get some people who are kinda my friend to not be friends with me...which is hard on me because i do all i can to be friends with everyone and it takes only two people not to like u and they can make it 20!!!

and all my closest friends are a grade above me so i just came to the depressing realization that my senior year...i have NO "BFF" in my school...kinda like you...right? : )

but i'm part of a professional theatre group where i have sooo many friends from many school districts...so i know i won't be totally alone while all my best friends are away at college!!! : )

join a group where is many new people from different schools where you can make new friends who know nothing about you so you won't have others saying things about you...

good luck!!

: ) Jill