Ugh! its frustrating!?

Question

i have a friend who doesnt want his girl to know that some girl is tryin to get at him, constantly! and he tells me everything but asks me not to tell her in fear of her thinking that he's cheating. what should i do? i want to tell so that she won't think i'm a bad friend but i don't want to because i don't want to lose a friend that i've known forever!! can somebody help me?! plzzz?!

Answer 1

He is being dishonest, and is asking you to cover for him. That's not right.

My opinion is that you should tell him first that you don't like the position he's putting you in, and ask him to be honest with his girlfriend first. Give him some time (not much!) to do this. Tell him that one way or another, you'll be telling her yourself in a day or two, so it will only look better for him if he owns up to it before you tell her.

If he doesn't tell his girl, then you tell her. Decide for yourself how much you tell her, just be sure you're honest with whatever you say.

I think it's always better to lose a dishonest friend then to jeopardize a friend to assist someone in being dishonest..