Uhh i really need help? ): ?

Question

Why does my friend do this to me?

every boy i really like... she always tries to steal him from me.

like she told me about this one boy that i really like... that she lead him on and talked to him all the time.

and she has always liked him before when she knew i liked him.

another one is when i went out with this other boy and she got him to dump me and go out with her?

this was alll during winter time.

and now i really like this other boy that i think she might steal ):

what should i tell her/do?

and what is her problem?

Answer 1

her problem is that she only wants what is appealing to you.

if you like a boy, then apparently she feels he's worthy of her attention too.

if she's done this in the past, why are u still her friend?

if u can't trust her with a boyfriend, then u can't trust her with your friendship, which you'll learn later on in life is way more important than a boy. you have to be honest with her though, write her if it's easier. if u want to remain friends, u either have to put up with it, or hope that she'll realize she's been hurting u, & change her ways. sadly this is a point in ur life where u might lose old friends.

Answer 2

Seriously she's not a true friend if she's always trying to steal your guys intentionally knowing you like them.

My guess is that she's really into competition.

You don't need someone like her to hang around with you. She might try to steal your boyfriend if you get one!

Tell her that what she's doing is really hurting you and that if she was a real friend she wouldn't do that to you.

Don't tell her about the guy you currently like, instead tell her you like a guy that you don't like and see if she tries to go after him. If she does, you know its time to drop her.

Answer 3

wow she doesnt sound like a friend. Dont tell her who you like. maybe confront her also n ask her what the go is y does she feel that you are not good enough for these boys.

Answer 4

you know it sounds like she is really insecure...maybe she is jealous if you in some way or she feels like she has to "one-up" you.  anyway you really don't need friends that are going to hurt you like that so really get rid of her. she's really not a friend anyway.

Answer 5

Go for a really ugly gross guy and see what happens then; if she goes for him as will ***** slap her face for being such a freak.

Answer 6

Such drama.

Stop hanging out with her. And don't tell her whom you have the hots for.  

Answer 7

when you like a boy..and you think your friend is going to steel him...Dont tell your friend..and when you go out with a guy..act like he is your friend and tell him to stay away from your friend..that way your Bf is Avoiding your friend... I hope i helped =)

Answer 8

Tell her how you feel.. Maybe she's jealous.

And stop treating you like dirt...

If she ignores you, then she's obviously not a good friend

Answer 9

you don't need that kind of "friend" she's probably jealous of you and just want whatever you want! I say move on and do what's best for you!