Uhm why does this guy stare at me?

Question

My friend told this guy I liekd him, and he's really shy and socially awkward and told her he didn't want a gf but I moved on and found someone else. But I've run into him three time after my friend told him, and everytime he just dead-on STARES at me for 10 seconds.

Today he was going inside a classroom, and saw me and just stood there and stared at me and then walked inside.

Uhm what the h**l is going on?

Answer 1

he wants to get some action but hes scared of rejection.

Answer 2

he mabeey thinks your ugly or your hot anwer mine please pitures

Answer 3

he's really shy and socially awkward!! He's intimidated by you and doesn't know how to approach you. Girls have a real misconception that guys are suppose to do every thing and are there for good at it.Well most of them aren't.

Good Luck in the mean time be flattered.

Answer 4

he properly like you a lot or got problems

Answer 5

hes too shy to have a gf and too anxious to make an effort to talk to you because he thinks/knows he will fk it up, so he doesnt bother. after knowing you like him he now likes u so much it makes him feel sick. go jump on him its what he wants

Answer 6

he's not sure,he's checking you out scanning your reactions and expressions,and maybe playin reverse psycology with you the; act like your not interested even with the hoties and the hoter try,and they want you more cuz they are drawn to figuring out what he realy like if hes turnin down the greater offers

Answer 7

He has seen too many movies. Or he is just crazy... seek help.

Answer 8

I don't know him.

Just FYI. Ask him if he's actually staring at you. Don't assume anything.

Chances are he might be staring at you to get your attention or doing it by accident. He might even have regrets that he turned you down.

But if it bothers you...let him know that it does. Or at the least tell him you find it rude.

Just FYI...when you wrote this:

    "I've run into him three time after my friend told him, and everytime he just dead-on STARES at me for 10 seconds"

..my reaction was...it probably didn't mean anything...he could have been thinking about a hamburger and was looking through you and not at you..and probably didn't realize it...

But when you said this:

"Today he was going inside a classroom, and saw me and just stood there and stared at me and then walked inside"

...now it sounds more like he wants to talk to you or something...I don't know. But if you care....find out. If you don't and he's bothering you and you think he's harmless...let him know that you want him to cut it out. Or just ignore him.

Hopefully he will stop.

My point is...don't speculate. Get the facts. Don't let other people give you theories about another person.

If you're young...talk to your parents for advice. I believe thats what they are there for.