Um, I have a problem and I seriously need help because I'm really freaked out...?

Question

Okay, so my uncle has this friend, Mark, and he's in the military and when I was younger, I used to write him letters and send him care packages, and I saw him for the first time today at a family party, and after the party, I heard my parents talking.... He thinks I'm hot and he wouldn't believe them that I was only 14.

What the h**l?? I mean, when he walked in, I was in the pool, wearing a bikini. But, come on! It's not like I'm this s**y, S****y woman! I'm a girl! I have small b***s, 34B, I could loose like 5 lbs (I'm pretty skinny, but I have a bit of a tummy), I never thought of myself as "hot". I've always thought I was decent looking... But it's so sketchy!! He's 35! He's an adult, grown man and he's hitting on me?? EWW!!!! My God, I hope I never see him again... What do I do??

Answer 1

OMG!! I'm sorry that happened! I think hes perverted. Tell your uncle to keep him away from you!♥

Answer 2

You should absolutely without a doubt warn your parents and other people you trust such as friends, a sibling, an aunt or a cousin that you are very uncomfortable with this man. That is the very first thing you should do.

In case something happens people should definitely be aware that you and this man are not cool, so that they know to look out for you when he's near to get you an out of talking to him or just in general to keep you away from his reach.

Do not lead him on, cover up (whether you look great or not) and if you act awkward around him he might act differently.

If he still looks at you in that kind of way or treats you like that, as wrong as it may sound I would not keep myself groomed. (Don't shave, don't wear deodorant, make your hair scruffy, no makeup, ugly clothes.)

If he's not physically attracted to you, nothing can happen, am I right?

Hope it works, and that the creep stays awayy.  

Answer 3

Talk to your mom about how it made you uncomfortable. Do you know if he had been drinking maybe a little, and wasn't drunk or anything, just a little tipsy.

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Answer 4

Accept the compliment of his attention. At least you know that you are attractive. Then stay away from him.  

Answer 5

Well maybe you should talk to your mom, and if you ever find yourself in another situation with him just tried to avoid him cuz thats really creepy and wrong.  

Answer 6

You know what to do!  Stay far, far away from him - he is clearly pretty aggressive, and is good at blocking out and denying what he actively does not want to hear.  Never, ever let yourself be in a room alone with him.  He is just looking to get laid.  

Answer 7

Can you say pedophile?