Umm, drinking for the first time? (Advice neeeded)?

Question

First of all let me start off saying if you are not going to be helpful please do not answer and do not be rude. My sister and her friends want me to drink alcohol and do drugs with them at this party tonight. I said I will only have ONE drink and will not do drugs or anything because they kept bothering me. I have only had one drink before, it was one shot of vodka with orange and cranberry juice. It tasted horrible and felt like fire going down. Well anyways they said they were going to give me a "white russian," are there any tips or anything I should know? And here is the "no rude, no judging" part, Im kind of 13. But hey I said only one and I am not doing drugs... So any advice? Its tonight by the way.

Answer 1

Alcohol is DRUGS....so get that straight.  You are using a drug that kills thousands of people every year.  And if you're 13...know that people are waaay more likely to have drinking problems if they start as teenagers.

Answer 2

you sound like u dont want to drink at all lol and that is a nasty drink to start and why does your sister want you to get drunk so bad how old is she? whole situation sounds weird and **** id rather get high then drunk anyway

Answer 3

Well a white russian is either vodka and milk, or vodka, coffee liqueur and cream of some sort. If you didn't like vodka the first time around then i doubt you'll think much more of it now.

If you do drink it then have some water handy just to wash it down. Most importantly if you don't want to have a drink then just don't, i know that's not much help with peer pressure though lol!

Answer 4

RUDE AND UNHELPFUL

liquor before beer and your in the clear

beer before liquor and youll never be sicker

Answer 5

haha awesome question. the only reason i'm answering this is because i'm still underage and drank at that age. First of all, since you are only 13 don't drink a lot. No more than about 3 shots worth of liquor. Vodka is usually good when you have it with a fruity drink, goes down much easier. also just fyi, its not even worth drinking if you're only gonna take 1 shot, but still since you're young no more than 3. it also depends when the last time and how much you ate last and (not to be rude) but how big you are. if you are pretty skinny or scrawny, its gonna take a lot less alcohol for you to get drunk than the bigger or heavier people. if you DONT want to get drunk, make sure to eat before you drink and work some water in there every now and then. Being at a certain level of drunk can be fun if you dont go past the point of feeling horrible afterwards, its a very thin line between just right fun drunk and just pass gonna feel horrible in the morning drunk. hope i helped a lot, hope you have one h**l of a night.

oh ps, stick to either liquor or beer, NOT BOTH, and dont mix drugs in with it. do one or the other and dont do drugs that are really bad like heroin or ecstacy, stick to small time like weed or painkillers.

party hard!

Answer 6

uh dont let them make you do anything you dont want to you'll definitely regret idt and dont drink more than threee drinks

Answer 7

vodka with cranberry juuice and grapefruit juice is called seabreeze... if i m not wrong... white russian is vodka with kahlua and milk with maraschino cherry...

the best drink a lady like u cld have is baileys On the rocks...

so ask for that... u can have a thousand of that and be still smiling...

Ethanol

Answer 8

Def eat first. A white russian is a milk based drink and has two different kinds of alcohol in it so make sure your not allergic to dairy products. Alcohol dehydrates the body (a hangover) so make sure you drink a bottled water or two before you go to bed. Make sure you know the laws in your area about age restrictions for drinking, good call about not doing drugs. Other than that you should be ok. Drinking impairs your senses, judgment etc so be careful and stay a step ahead of everybody else. Good luck!!

Answer 9

I know what your its like in your situation, I'm thirteen and i just recently went to my first party. First of all good choice about not doing drugs, and secondly if you start drinking make sure that you dont go over board, because drinking can be really fun as long as you don't go over board. if you dont want to get "drunk" than eat alot before you start drinking. what your drinking might taste really bad and your going to want to chug it. but i don't sudgest it, from personal experiance. You can still have alot of fun at this party without drinking acsessivly. People are proball going to keep trying to peer presure you, especailly if your intoxinated so i would stop drinking if you think you are going to start making wrong or bad decions

good luck an have fun=D

Answer 10

I presume that you do realize this is quite illegal at 13.  Who's supplying the alcohol, exactly?  I'd be a bit leery of the whole thing. . . it really sounds like they just want to have a good laugh at your expense.

If it's really going to be a white russian. . . that's probably not going to seem half as awful to you as the previous experience.  Stick to this ONE DRINK you agreed to if you're really going through with it, okay?

Answer 11

don't go to the party even you said only one drink and no drugs, what if they insists you to do it.

Answer 12

do it

Answer 13

You have to acquire a taste for something.  Beer, liquor, mixed drinks, malt beverages.  If you narrow it down, start with something without a heavy flavor (no dark beers or martinis).  Try a light beer, or a long beach.  Fruit juices in liquor kill most of the liquor flavor.  Since your only getting one, ask for a "top shelf" liquor.  These have been filtered and are generally of a higher quality with less burn and more flavor.

Answer 14

dont do it

Answer 15

a white russian is  a coffee liquer and milk... sometimes vodka is added.

that was just to let you know what youll be drinking.

but on the other hand id be concerned about why your sister wants you to drink so badly. pleas dont do it at all. tell your parents about this. there is something fishy about it.

young girls have been date raped doing things like this, dont think it cant happen to you.

please do the right thing.

Answer 16

dont do it dont give in to peer presure

Answer 17

Don't Drink - for two reasons

- Why drink if you have not enjoyed the first experience?

- What's the hurry?

But, if you must drink please ensure to have some food an hour before and drink a lot of water. And stick to you promise of one drink.

Answer 18

a white russian is basically vodka milk and kaluah, it doesn't taste bad and wont burn, however, if you drink more than one and you are inexperienced and you get sick and throw up it will be disgusting.  The best advice is not to drink at all when you are only 13, but if you decide you are going too I would recommend having a beer or bottled drink like a wine cooler or smirnoff ice, letting other people mix drinks for you can be dangerous as you will not know how much alcohol they have put in the drink, also you run the risk of drugs being added to the drink (like a date rape drug), make sure you watch the drink being made, it should have 1 shot of vodka and 1 shot of kaluah and milk, make them use a shot glass! and don't let that drink out of your sight.  It sounds like your friends would like to see you messed up.  also, eat before you go, don't drink on an empty stomach.

Answer 19

Just make sure you've eaten before! and you said only one drink, so stick to that and you should be alll good...

Answer 20

well, i dont know how that tastes like but dont drink it all at once. take a sip, so feel how much it burns, then you decide how much you should be sipping at a time. and also have soem water next to you. after drinking you should rinse the alcahol from your throat. maybe some breath mints in case you talk to someone you dont want to find out uve been drinking? btw, i know u dont wanna hear this, but you shouldnt drink until u can legally, i mean they have these laws for a reason. ur body isnt matured enough to consume an alcaholic drink. the only thing you should drink is something like 5-10% alcohol. white russian sounds very alcoholi-icky.

Answer 21

Well my friend if i give you advice on how to drink than (depending on state law) i will be prosecuted with you. So um yeah.......

Answer 22

don't drink cuz your friends made you .

i'm not a fan of vodka and more of a wine person.

good for you saying NO to drug. now say NO to alcohol.

you are too young, your friend shouldn't do it either.

i personally think alcohol such as vodka are the wrost. they taste bitter to me

Answer 23

My advice is to check out an article that will provide advice on how not to get sick when drinking. You may find this one by Liquor Live helpful:

http://www.liquorlive.com/cmsdisplay.php...

Answer 24

Peer pressure....I wouldnt even go down that road, this is how it starts....who knows how it'll finish

Answer 25

drinking isnt always fun. for my 16th birthday my friends decided they were going to get me drunk for the first time, well no one told me when to stop and i blacked out, when i woke up I was covered in 7 layer dip and I was informed that I broke a toilet seat a shower curtain and broke my big toe.

and i dont remember any of it.

sometimes its more fun to be the sober one and laugh at all the silly drunks, you'll remember more than they do lol

Answer 26

Drink lots of water.  It's got to be said so I'll go ahead and just say it.  You're way too young as I'm sure you know.  Don't let people pester you into drinking or drugs.  Bad habits start young....even if you don't think anything will happen.  Just take care of yourself.  Anyway, just drink lots of water afterwards to get it out of your system.  Hopefully your sister and her friends aren't just using you for entertainment....waiting to see if you puke...etc.

Answer 27

drink all u want if your in france, if your not, dont drink until your 21

Answer 28

Oh goodness I wish I could talk you out of it but hey im a teenager and have been there. Your mind is made up and I doubt there is any talking you out of it.

Well first I always use the excuse that i just dont like whatever they have. This guy once was like drink a beer with me and when I said no he started making fun of me. I told him that I was not afraid of the drink but simply did not like beer and I wasnt going to let anyone make drink something I dont like. He "understood"

Make sure to eat before and sip it slowly. Also make sure you see the drink being poured. The last thing you want is a spiked drink to get you drunk and be taken advantage of. DO not drink a heavy liquor, this will get you totally wasted. No vodka or tequila or whiskey...

I dont know anything about white russian so look into it. If its a "heavy liquor" try it and ask for something you "like better" which just happens to be a lighter liquor. also you try pouring some of it out when others arent looking

Just Please be careful. And dont become a partier, its not worth it. Besides in the future people will respect you for not giving in and then you will get friends you want to hang out with.

Answer 29

White Russians are delicious. Best advice though, or saying is "Beer before liquor; get even sicker. Liquor before beer; have no fear." For the most part that's true. I think you'd be okay with two white russians. Just make sure that its not loaded with Vodka. Make sure they go lite on the Kalua as well. I normally fill my glass up with ice, then fill my glass 1/3 the way with vodka, add Kalua until the glass is half full, then fill the rest up with half & half or milk.

If any bartenders don't approve with the way I make a caucasian, well, I'm the Dude. Like the Lebowski Dude. White Russians are my drink of choice.

Answer 30

a white russian is a milky drink...not that bad, drink it and then go throw up! and dont do drugs...

Answer 31

my advice to you. and i dont care if you dont want to hear this.

the worst thing i did when i was 15 was listen to my friends and start drinking. i know you are only having one at this party, but what about in a few months? your tolerance gets higher and higher and you need more. if you dont want to drink, stand up for yourself and tell your friends you will go but not drink. i know plenty of people that stay sober at parties  because they dont believe in it. dont be another one in the crowd. YOU ARE 13. dont ruin your body so soon. like i said, now that i started it is so much harder to turn back. please just listen to your gut.