Umm i have no privacy in my own room?

Question

So this afternoon i was taking a shower and my mom walks i lyk 3 times just to check on me and then my brother walks in to use the bathroom when we have lyk 4 other bathrooms. my shower is clear glass so you can see right through and my mom wont let me lock the door idk y though so when anyone walks in they look at me naked.

So how is a good way to tell my mom that i am not a little girl and i need privacy???

Answer 1

Wow!  That's pretty terrible.  Do you know why she has an obvious distrust of you?  I would sit her down, and as maturely as possible, I would tell her that you need a little bit of privacy...  You are old enough and physically mature enough that you ABSOLUTELY need her to leave you alone.  If you are the oldest (especially female) child she might be having a hard time realizing that you are growing up.

Be patient and resist that temptation to yell at her.

GOOD LUCK.

Answer 2

tell her u are getting older and and u need Ur privacy especially in the bathroom

Answer 3

Wtf that's messed up.

Lock the frickin door anyway. You should have a chose whether your body is on display or not o_O;;;...

Btw, your brother probably felt like pissing you off/embarrassing you. And my grandma was like that (I was with her in the morning cuz my mom & dad worked) and she started making me mad just coming in while she pleased when I was showering/getting dressed (because there's was clear too) so one day I was just like STOP coming in, I'm not 4 years old anymore, I -dont- need help showering. Plus, I'm not with her that much anymore, but when I am there, she doesnt come in when Im showering and she knocks on the door when Im getting dressed

Answer 4

wow! thats ridiculous!

tell her that you are growing up and need some space and privacy. tell her that coming into the bathroom when u are butt naked is embarrasing and disrespectful!

tell her that its important for her to trust you, because without good trust, its not a good relationship!

hope i helped

Answer 5

get a lock or a sign i hav that prob2 i be dressin and then  hi mom!!!!!!!! lol just talk 2 her bout it kk!

me best!

Answer 6

Katie I think your mom is weird and none of your brothers have been taught manners.

Answer 7

just tell her that you don't feel comfortable when ppl walk in and ur in the shower

Answer 8

telll her that u need space and rather not have people staring at u naked! its awkward! haha.

Answer 9

Ask her why you can't lock the door. For the past 12 years I've had to share my room with my little brother and sister. I'm now 18, he's 15, and she's 12 and still we all share a tiny room. So yeah, could be worse.

Answer 10

just be like... mom, im not having a tea party in there, im naked and dont need company

Answer 11

just like that last sentence jus tell her u dont wanna be seen naked and thats it.

Answer 12

well first of all put a towel in the shower so they can't see you, and second tell your mom people shouldn't walk in on you when you are on the bathroom! Girls need their privacy!!

Answer 13

Lock the door, and if ANYONE knocks yell "IM IN THE SHOWER AND IM NAKED!!!" Lol Im sure they will leave you alone.

Answer 14

tell her its weird for anyone to look at her naked.