Ummmm Help Please..!?

Question

Ok so My boyfriend wants to have a baby and i don't really want to cuz im not ready and yeah i know how to take care of a baby and stuff and he says he does to but im not sure so my friend is gonna let us watch her son over night but i dont know wat to tell my mom cuz it will be at my house and my mom would get mad if i had my bf drive dow here cuz he lives far jus to be watchin a kid while he's there and i cant tell her why cuz she'll get mad so wat do i do

Answer 1

If you're worried about what your mom is going to think about this, you're *definitely* not ready for a baby.

Answer 2

To tell you the truth, it seems as if you know what you should do but you just wants us to reassure you that you are making the right decision. The right decision is to not have the baby. You know yourself and if you say you are not ready, then you are not ready. Remember, If you have this baby, its yours for the rest of your life. I also get the impression that you are still young which means you will have plenty of time to have a child.

Answer 3

If you think you aren't ready then you are not ready. Don't let someone talk you into having a baby. Kids are forever and change your life (for the better when you're ready), so if you don't want one now it is a good idea not to have one. Let your boyfriend know that you will have one someday, but not now. Get to the root of why he wants one.