Uncircumcised and a bit confused

Question

first of all i heard that the skin attaching a f******n and glans is called a frenelum or w/e but, i heard its normal and my question is, is it supposed to detach after a while? or is it supposed to stay on? because when masturbating and such, i can't get the f******n to retract so it isnt as flexible. i heard in some places its supposed to stay, but even so my f******n can't go over my glans when erect, if there are stretching excersises, am i suppoesd to do them while erect?

Answer 1

The frenulum doesn't detach. It sounds like you just have a tight f******n. You can do the stretching exercises when erect or flaccid (try flaccid and erect if your f******n is tight when flaccid, and erect if it's only tight when erect). Those exercises loosen the f******n for most guys after a few weeks. If not you can see your doctor and ask for betamethasone cream to help loosen the f******n. Or if your problem is because the frenulum is too short, there are some minor procedures they can do to fix that too.

Harriet

Answer 2

it is suppose to stay on and maby you should pull it back and then get an erection

Answer 3

How old are you?  For some guys, it's not possible to retract it all the way until you're well into puberty.  I was 16 before I could pull it back over the head completely and painlessly.  If you want to try stretching exercises, do it in the shower.  The warm water makes skin looser and more malleable.  I don't think it matters if you do it flaccid or erect.

Answer 4

The frenulum is meant to stay there, unless it rips and it is better if it doesn't. I recommend two different methods of stretching, particularly for different stages of the stretching process.

Here's a link to detailed instructions that should answer most of your questions.

http://xsorbit28.com/users5/foreskinforu...

You can email me if you need more help.

Ignore the pro-cutting answers. Circumcision removes 2/3 of your penile skin, including the most sensitive parts of your p***s.

You lose the gliding action as it slides on itself during masturbation and s*x. You will suffer bruising, perhaps some bleeding, and the swelling from the disruption to the lymph system goes on for up to six months. Removing the f******n turns the surface of the glans from an inner mucosal membrane to outside skin. Newly circumcised adults usually go through some weeks of intense discomfort as the glans is constantly exposed to rubbing on clothing, until it develops a thicker keratin layer and becomes less sensitive. You must abstain from ALL sexual activity for an average of six weeks. Some men like the final result but others complain of loss of sensation and miss being able to slide their f******n over the glans. Circumcised guys often have little or no movable skin left and are forced to m********e using lube or rubbing dry, without the loose skin. There is no going back if you don’t like the result.

Answer 5

the frenulum will always be attached, that is normal for intact and circumcised men, the f******n is supposed to glide along the shaft but may not cover the glans when erect, as long as it covers when flaccid then it's all good, if you do want to stretch out the skin to make it longer you can do so either erect or flaccid

Answer 6

You have Phimosis and need to see a doctor! More than likely he will recommend circumcision, which is the best thing that can happen to you! It is cleaner, healthier and looks much better. Don't believe the antis with you will loose all your sensitivity c**p, it is all BS! I was circumcised at 18 and can assure you I would do it again in a NY minute! I had no hesitation to have my boys (1&3) circumcised, because I know there is no downside, only a lifetime of benefits!

Answer 7

Your frenulum is that little bit of stringy skin at the underside of your p***s at the base of your glans.. where it meets the shaft.... sometimes people call it a "Banjo String".

Sometimes that banjo string can be tight and sometimes it can tear... but that doesnt happen to everyone. Not even to most guys. It is supposed to "stay on".

If your f******n is stuck to your glans so that you cannot pull it back behind your glans, then it is often stuck by smegma. You bathe it in the shower with sopay warm water and gently pull back your f******n as far as it will go every day.. until it frees up. This process takes a month or two.

If your f******n is too tight to retract (that is, not stuck.. just tight) then you can stretch it every day in the shower under warm water for 5 minutes a day for a month or so until it is loose enough to retract behind your glans.

You can do weither of these with a hard on... or not. Depending on how you feel at the time. it doesnt matter. Probably easier to stretch when flaccid though.