Uncircumcised men please answer

Question

Please don't give me gross answers because I really need to know... My fiance is uncircumcised and when he is intimate sometimes it is painful and pulls the skin causing it to bleed. He says there is a string of skin that is breaking loose. Is this normal? Neither of us are sure if this is supposed to happen, but it's kinda yuck. He is considering getting circumcised now- is it very painful for adults? Or should he just leave it alone?

Answer 1

Yes, its normal, and once its loose and healed, it won't happen any more.  He will feel more pleasure due to being uncircumcised, and if you let yourself go you will also feel more pleasure because he is uncircumcised.

Ultimately, as long as he keeps it clean, there is no reason to be circumcised.  It is much healthier and better to not be.

I btw am not uncircumcised myself -- but I know the various things that are connected to being uncircumcised.

Hermes

Answer 2

That's normal. It hppens to some uncircumcised males. In most cases, eventually that little string of skin will detach by itself.

However, since you mentioned that it cause bleeding and pain when he is intimate, a visit to the doctor office can disconnect that string of skin. He doesn't need to have circumsion if he doesn't want to.

Answer 3

Hence the reason for circumscision.it helps to remove this extra hanging skin which harbors germs and dirt.The best solution is to get circumscised.It has also be proved to reduce incidence of penile cancers.Some uncircumscised guys are able to deal with this if the extra skin is not too much and if it's not getting in the way of intimacy.Get rid of the extra skin and see a nice cap on your partners gadget.Goodluck with it.hope this helps

Answer 4

never heard of that, get circumsized

Answer 5

he may possibly have too short of a frenulum or a skin bridge, if it is the frenulum he can have just that cut so he does NOT need the full circumcision and will be a lot less painful and there will be little loss in sensation compared to a circumcision which removes a LOT of nerves

i highly recommend leaving the f******n

i restored my f******n (what I could of it) and would never go back, since he has experienced the real thing going to a circumcised experience may not be that great

but it does sound like a frenulum breve, just get the frenulum cut if it's a recurrent problem

and this is still a circumcised persons question as well as many infant circumcisions leave the frenulum so we can have the same problems

Answer 6

Circumcision may not be the best answer.

The term for the condition is Frenulum Breve

http://www.circumstitions.com/Frenbrev.h...

Answer 7

normally its fine and there is no problem but in his case i would advise getting the cut :)

Answer 8

dont touch it for now. but go to the doctor as soon as possible

Answer 9

The frenulum on the anterior side of the shaft near the glans may be tearing or he may have Phimosis.  Though I was only 6 days old when I had mine, I'm sure it is very painful.  If it is phimosis there are techniques to manually stretch the skin slightly like every other day in order to make it more loose.  I generally disagree with genital mutilation, so in my opinion he should not get circumcised.  Make sure he keeps his wounds clean so they don't get infected and you should probably abstain from intercourse until he heals.  

Answer 10

That doesn't normally happen it sounds like his frenulum is too short/tight or you guys are having really rough s*x without enough lubrication. He should see a doctor and ask about procedures to loosen the frenulum (without full circ which would be more painful and lead to a decrease in sensation). There is frenuloplasty or in serious cases they can remove the frenulum (frenectomy).

Answer 11

It is painful for adults and it leaves a nasty scar. Tell him to go see a doctor and discuss ALL his options, not just circumcision.

-Connor

Answer 12

I was circumcised at 18 and would do it again in a heartbeat! It sounds as if his frenulum is to tight! He can get that snipped or get circumcised. Being circumcised is so much cleaner, healthier for you and him and looks much better! The antis would have you think there is some great loss of sensitivity and I can assure you that is all BS! I had no hesitation to have my son's (1&3)  circumcised as I know there is no downside, only a lifetime of benefits! There is no upside to being uncircumcised!!!!!

Answer 13

This is not uncommon in uncircumcised men.  The string of skin he refers to can tear and bleed, then reheal many times.  Complete circumcision is often not necessary.  The skin "string" can frequently be clipped and sealed with cautery (either heat or chemical), and many doctors can perform the proceedure in their office under local anesthesia (numb the area).

He should expect to be sore for a few days until he's healed, but recovery time is much less than would be for circumcision of adults.  Many doctors specialize in urinary problems with men (urologists) and are likely to have the most experience with this.

Good luck, hope this helped!

Answer 14

he's tearing the frenulum;  it attaches just under the pee hole and runs to the f******n.  

He needs to see a doctor, but he doesn't need a circumcision.  The doctor can numb the area with a local, and do a quick snip on the frenulum.  Then he won't have that problem any more.  It'll take about a week to heal;  much faster than healing from a circumcision, which would take about three to six weeks.