Unconfident and Jealousy prob. PLEASE HELP!?

Question

Ok well I get jealous and unconfident and I REALLY REALLY need to be more confident can you please help? Thanks!

Answer 1

why do you get jelous???

if it is a BF problem just remember he is with you and if other girls are like flirting with him just ignore it because he chose you unless he like flirts back then you can just kick his *** lol

Answer 2

Have a mantra, i know it sounds silly but have something you have where you can see it EVERYDAY

Realize the jealousy and where its coming from. Then fix it. These issues are all about YOUR train of thought. Everyone has a bad day, but multiple ones? Thats an issue.

My mantra for bad days is written on my wall in my bedroom, and my work...something like this.

"If i wasn't smart I wouldn't work here. If I wasn't worth it I wouldn't be married. I wouldn't be successful if I wasn't driven. If I wasn't sure of this- I wouldn't be me "

Repeat it to yourself when your in a rut. you'll pull through.

msg me if you need more help.

Answer 3

Learn to love yourself first. You need to know that you are important and you have to have confidence. Whoever you are with, should be happy and should love you of what you are, If not is not worthy. Been jealous it's OK, but not in excess. You have too many qualities as a person. I hope this help.

Answer 4

Consentrate on your good traits. Its hard i have the same problam. Just remember that to be the best is an oponion but to be your best is the greatest you can ever be. aim for that and the rest will come.

Answer 5

Growth within you is the key and the only way down that path is for you to experience it.  Start taking self-help classes or improve your skills.  This way you are surrounding yourself with other people with other opinions and just listen to how everyone communicates is an eye-opener.  Jealousy of what? Others?  If so, jealousy is a the negative connotation and opposite of admiration.  If you could start feeling a sensitivity toward others, you will began developing a sense of apathy and when wonderful things happen, even if they are for someone else, you will feel glorious.  Encouraging others who are less fortunate is one way of growing out of jealousy.