Uncontrollable fantasies.. affecting my concentration?

Question

ok, so I am a very lonely guy, im 18 ... I live with my mother, and I have barely any friends... and since about early high school, (grade 9) I have been having fantasies, unable to take my musik out of my ears, just totally taking over my ability to concentrate and absorb information.. its like I want these fantasies to happen.. I wish they didnt happen because they seem.. so... real... and my work, socializing, everything is being affected.. what can I do?!

Answer 1

The only advice I could give you is go see a physician to check if everything is okay. I would suggest you find some hobbies, so you can let out your frustration and socialize