Underage and s*x??(girls only)?

Question

i really don't know where to ask this question. if you're underage and a virgin, is it wrong? if you feel weird because all of your friends are doing it but you're not? what's wrong with you? i don't get it. can someone help me out here? i'm not really comfortable with it but my friends make fun of me for it. i don't know what to do.

i know all about getting AIDS & HIV and all that but is it really worth it?

Answer 1

here's the deal.

1. Don't do it till you're married

2.  I'm also realistic

Do it when you're ready...not when your friends think you should be ready.  Do it with someone you love...it's only your first time once, don't waste it on someone you don't really like.  And finally make sure it's safe.  s*x at a young age isn't worth getting an STD or getting pregnant.

Just be smart about it

Answer 2

If your friends make fun of you because you're a virgin, they're no friends of yours.  No, not everyone is doing it, and believe it or not, many of the ones who claim they're having s*x really aren't.  I say, if you're not ready, don't allow yourself to fall for peer pressure and give in.  Stick to your guns.  In the meantime, educate yourself about s*x and sexuality by talking to your parents, a counselor at school, your doctor, Planned Parenthood, or check out comprehensive s*x ed websites like http://www.scarleteen.com/.  The more you know, the better prepared you will be for s*x when you decide you're finally ready.

Answer 3

Yeah I'm not a girl but I'm answering. No it's really not worth it, yes it can be fun and everything but it's really only good when you're in love with the other person and you know them really well. Also you have to be ready to go all the way. If you rush into it and do it before you are ready and feel comfortable with it you will regret it and you will not enjoy it. They maybe making fun of you now but in a few years they will not be and guys will like you more and respect you more. Guys do not want to date a girl who as sleep with a bunch of other guys. So I would tell your friends to back off also there is a good chance one of them will get pregnant before she is out of high school. So I say don't do it until you are really in love and you feel ready.  

Answer 4

yea dont do it just because your friends are doing it..

wait until youre in a good relationship and youre ready, emotionally and mentally...

let them make fun of you...just dont show that it bothers you...b proud of not sleeping around...

Answer 5

it is only worth it when you know in your heart that you are ready! i waited and the man i chose to give my virginity to is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. i was almost 20 and went through h**l to get to this point. lost a fiance to a suicide and all. if you need someone to talk to i am here. how old are you. you can message me on yahoo at eminemsgirl20062003 or my aol email is [e-mail]. let me know if you need any advice!!!

Answer 6

OMG!! NOO DONT HAVE s*x!!..dont give into the pressure..im 17 and ive neverhad s*x neither..and to be honest most people put pressure on others to do something or make fun of them because they dont want to be the only ones doing something and they want to drag everyone else down with them..so they wont feel bad or stupid about it alone..so be glad your different from them.and tell them to shut the **** up next time because they are not really acting like friends

Answer 7

I am 21 and still a virgin. My twin sister is a virgin. So are most of my friends, guys and girls. Not everybody is having s*x. There is definately pressure to do so though. It's all I hear about at my job. But I'm living above what people expect. I have plans and dreams about my future. Don't let others write the story of your life. s*x was designed to be between one man and one woman. When you have s*x you are joined with that person physically. It is felt emotionally and mentally as well. Save yourself. I am so excited about my wedding night because I have a precious gift to give to my husband that no other man will ever receive from me. Once you give up your virginity, you can never get it back.

Answer 8

there is no reason to think about s*x right now , remember every pregnancy is 18 years of your life that the babies father probably wont be in it. There is nothing wrong it waiting and there is no shame in it , just wait you will be glad you did .  

Answer 9

NO its not wait for the person u love

Answer 10

right I am female and 24 years old, the first time is scary and to be honest is never that great because the pair of you are nerves and have no idea what your doing. As for the aids and HIV they are very very very rare things to get, and can be easily protected against with a condom, the bigger things you need to be worried about is sexually transmitted disease like herpes, crabs, gnorreah (sorry for the spelling) and of course unwanted pregnancys now with out sound like your parents it all very well waiting for the ''right'' person. Just make sure the person you do it with will be kind and gentle and understanding and as long as you use something only you will know when the time is right

hope this helps