Uni stress!!! help!!!?

Question

Ok so im starting uni in less than a month!!

Im scared about everything changing.

Like not going to college every day

loosing contact with old friends

Money issues

worrying weather i will like my room mates or not (what if they all hate me argh!!)

Moving from home ect.

Not to mension the work i ACTUALY have to do there!!

Can any one give me any ideas on how i can stop myself from being so anxious and panicy about this??

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Answer 1

Well, first, the reason you are stressed is that you don't know what it is going to be like.  You think you do, but the experience is never quite like the anticipation of the experience.  Having said that, you need to relax.  I know it is intimidating.  Maybe you could visit the University a couple of times before you go.  Maybe the library or the cafeteria.  Those common areas will help you see all the other students as you see yourself.  You will be more confident. Honestly, I'm old.  If I could have another shot at it, I'd be you, including the panicky and anxiousness!

Yep, your roomates may suck, but you won't be there that much.  Just make the rules the first day.  Like don't touch my stuff, don't eat my food, shower times, etc.  You will be ok.  It's kind of like a rite of passage to have a roommate.  Remember how many people have LOVED their roommates and been best friends for life.  That will probably be you.