Unplanned pregnancy and adoption question...?

Question

I really don't want a lecture... it does not help this situation. I know I screwed up. I plan on supporting both the child and the mother in every way possible if she decides to keep the baby. I would personally rather keep the baby because I don't think I would regret it. THIS IS A SELFLESS QUESTION. The problem here is that in order for the BABY to not grow up in a "broken home" where both parents are living together and married...we would have to get married. Thats not right... marriage should not be forced upon anyone. The ultimate question which I am asking is what is better for the baby... growing up with two LOVING parents who are not in a relationship together or growing up knowing that the parents (also LOVING and great people) although married are not blood related (adoption). PS - it is hypetcritical to call someone a POS who does not care about his kid when writing a message not directed at helping a baby born in an unplanned pregnancy.

Answer 1

I am sorry you are in this tough situation, If you decide you cannot offer that child a good life you should allow a good family to adopt him/her. We are trying to adopt right now and can offer a baby a wonderful loving home. Please keep us in mind. [e-mail]