Unrequited Love is a *****, or is it?

Question

This all started last year in Bio when the most popular boy in school, let's call him X, sat behind me. I didn't think he liked me or anything but he stared a lot and seemed to really pay attention to me. I think he is gorgeous, but I didn't think anything of his stares.

Then, my current boyfriend asked me out on the last day of school and a week later a get a message from X on facebook saying that he thanks I should know that he thinks I am attractive. This confuses me completely but I reply "thanks" and then somehow we get into a conversation twice, and in these conversations he called me smart and also said he wanted to hang out with smart girls more because they tend to be much cooler.

Then, nothing. nothing at all. I actually thought about a ton over the summer, when I went away and developed a crush. Then come the first day of school and every time I see him we make really awkward eye contact.

I really like him, but I don't know whether he is embarrassed about telling me he thinks I'm attractive, regrets it, or still feels the same way. I like him a lot but don't know what to do. I could:

a) chat with him on line

b) do nothing and hope it passes

c) other

HELP Is there any chance he still thinks about me ever? Should I just risk it and talk to him via facebook chat?

Answer 1

you already HAVE a boyfriend and still thinking about this?

a handsome guy is not meant for long term relationship. There is no doubt many more beautiful girls will fall for him. If he can "fall" for you, so will he falling for other girls. Go for guy that has ability not look only.

If you don't want to be cheated, then DON'T do it in the first place.

Good luck in your future

Answer 2

talk to him on chat.

and be like.

didnt we talk at the beginning of the summer??

Answer 3

i think you should become his friend first, see what he is about then take it from there.

<3

Answer 4

Talk to him and find out.Break up with your current b/f though if you are going to pursue him,that'd be the only decent thing to do.

Answer 5

don't do anything.....he knows who you are....he knows how to contact you ...and he certainly must have an idea that you like him .....If he wants to pursue this with you ...let him do the next move.......Maybe something is there with you two .. but i tend to think not really .....and pressuring him won't make it genuine.

Answer 6

Facebook;keep it private and easy. This is not fair to your current boyfriend though, so you may want to choose betweent the two. But there is no point in breakin up with him if the other guy doesnt even like you yet. Play it safe, look into it. Dont flirt unless he does, to avoid looking desperate.

gooood luckkkk :)

Answer 7

Hand him a note. the note says, "Hi Steve,. I think that I would like to get to know you better. Here is my e-mail address."

Don't leave your current guy until you are certain that Gorgeous is A) interested and B) available.

Unless you're terribly bored with him and willing to take some time off.

Oh, one more thing. Love is passion, intimacy and commitment. It's not a game of solitary, it's not a one-way street. Unrequited love does not qualify as love. Sorry.