Unwanted attention from a married male?

Question

Ok so this guys has been checking me out and and trying to get an eye contact. He does this when he is driving in his car and i am out. He is married and had a 5 year old daughter. I have no idea what to do, i try to ignore him, but he doed that even when i am with my brother (12 years old). I have no idea what to do. I do not like this specailly cause he is married and it makes me angry, i only know one of his friend. What am i supposed to do?

i live in India and these things are looked down upon (i mean what he is doing

i am 21 though i look younger than that.

i feel deeply hurt for his behaviour cause he has a wife and a kid waiting at home.

Answer 1

Trust me, I have had my fair share of married men check me out. It's hard to deal with, but as long as he doesn't try to touch you or make sexual comments, there is not a lot that can be done. Just make faces at him until he stops. Lol, that usually works for me!

Answer 2

See if one of your male friends might"pretend" to be more seriously involved with you, to through this guy off

Answer 3

That is a d**n disgrace, wtf is wrong with some people......................... i agree with the Mrs. on this kick him in the balls as hard as you can then let him try to explain why he ended up in the hospital with a ruptured t******e to his wife. no I'm just kidding don't do that lol that can really mess a guy up parity bad lol. have a guy friend tell him to cool it or the next visit will be his wife.

Answer 4

since you live in India, I'm not sure what the acceptable norms would be.. but here where I live (Canada), if I felt uncomfortable with what was going on and ifnoring it wasnt making it go away, then I would confront him... I would either stare back at him, to make it known that I saw him and what he was doing... or I would say something....

good luck

Answer 5

Say something very nasty to him. Women insult me all the time even though I say nice things to them. If one insult doesn't work, then unload on him with 10 more. Sooner or later he will get the point that you are not interested.

Answer 6

I think you've been given some good advice.

You must be attractive.  See that as a positive sign and build on it.

And, don't mess with married guys.  We get bored sometimes and like the young ladies to look at.  Mostly we hope the young ladies will just reward us with an occasional smile and let it go at that.

Answer 7

India has always been a paradox for me.  You have great goddesses and yet women get treated like second class citizens - if that - in many circumstances.

I would tell your married buddy to p**s off in the nicest way because it is making you look bad in front of your community.

I love me a good Bollywood drama....

Answer 8

Nothing.  Married people are married, not dead.  Checking someone out is not cheating, just enjoying physical beauty.  Now if he approaches you and asks you out then you can kick him in the balls and tell his wife.

Answer 9

"Unwanted attention" is an oxymoron for women.

Answer 10

Again I also do not know the norm in India but I don't think that it is very nice what he is doing to you. I believe that is considered to be very rude and also it seems to mean that

he thinks you are 'easy'. Can you have your father speak to him about it?  I would tell my parents. I definitely would not

stare back at him or talk to him as I think that would only

encourage him.

Answer 11

The next time this happens, give him the coldest death look you can muster. If he doesn't get the hint after that, tell him to his face that you don't appreciate him staring at you like that.