Unwanted children.how do u feel?

Question

i have 4 month old twins.my husband said he never wanted them in the 1st place,his 4yr old from a previous relationship is the only important person in his life.my children & i dont count, his whole world revolves around his other child. he said it in so many words. by the way, they were born on her birthday. fortunately, i love them with all my heart & so does all my friends & family. their dad moves out anytime & stays away weeks on end to spend time alone with his other daughter, but doesnt change a diaper or feed or kids. how do i stay strong for my kids?

Answer 1

love them and always say i love you to them all the time so they no it and if u love him enough and take each day as it comes you will be amazed at how strough you can be.

and always make sure the twins are constantly reminded you love them but in sure you have that coverd

Answer 2

Knowing that you are their mother........hopefully makes you strong enough..........

Answer 3

.,maybe,

.,if that happens to me,

.,i may be sick..

.,and i think,

.,i cannot take that responsibility..

.,but it depends,

.,if I'm on the right age,

.,then,

.,why should i be sick?

.,and i will not make a thing which i know

that will make my life miserable..

Answer 4

The love that you have for them will keep you strong. You will be amazed at yourself and you can do. Take it one day at a time and trust that you will be a wonderful loving mother for your twins.