Up to what age are you considered young to have a baby?

Question

I know it's different for everyone. but I'm wondering is 24 considred young to have your first baby?

Answer 1

nahh mi mom had me @ 25 :D

Answer 2

This question is really subjective and it really just depends on the person.  Back in the day (like 20-30 years ago) women had 2-3 kids by the time they were 24.  These days, some women start very young (which I, personally, would consider anything under 21) and some start later on.  It all depends on when the person is ready and their expectations for their adult life.

I will be 28 when my first is born.  I may have wanted to be a younger mother, except it was important to me to finish my bachelor and masters degrees, as well as have a few years experience in my career before having my first.  It was also personally important for me to have my first before 30...so it just kinda worked out this way.

Answer 3

It depends.  24 seems young, but not necessarily too young.  I'd be more concerned about the following:

*  Are the parents in a stable, committed relationship, preferably married?  (Yeah, it's not required these days, but the first year of parenting is tough - the commitment of a marriage vow helps.)



* Are the parents able to afford the basic necessities of life - food and shelter - without relying on assistance?  (Yes, bad things happen.  But to go into parenting when you can't pay the rent?  That's irresponsible.)

* Is there a plan in place for childcare - either for one parent to stay home or to afford paying for care elsewhere?

* Do the parents have insurance to cover the pregnancy and the birth of the child, and the child's subsequent medical needs?  (It's a sin that many people don't have insurance, but I would never consider going into such an expensive life stage without proper medical coverage - it could potentially lead you to make decisions based on your ability to pay, not your child's best interests.  And that's tragic.)

Most importantly:

*  As individuals, are the parents stable, mature individuals ready to be grown-up and leave the joys of singlehood and freedom behind?  When one parent still wants to party, it's a problem.  Often religious individuals fare best as young parents because they have friends who are also skipping the bar scene for church activities.

24 would've been too young for me - way too young - but I know plenty of younger parents who thrive with starting their family that young.

Answer 4

I think it is a great age. I'm 24 and just had my first. I don't know if any age is too young. I believe if you are mature enough (like not into going to bars and getting smashed every night) and have your priorities in line then go ahead and have a baby. Just make sure you are ready and prepared to give up your life for the life of a beautiful baby. This is the best thing I ever did with my life and I wouldn't change it for the world. :)

Answer 5

no i dont think so i think it's a good age

Answer 6

I think 24 is a pretty good age to have your first baby!  I had my first when I was 19, I turned 20 four months after having her.  But I think of young mothers as like anyone under 17 or 18.  I really think that is too young, even 19 is kinda young,but at least they are considered adults and are able to do more than a 15 year old or like that.  

Answer 7

I think up to 21 is considered young to have a baby. After that, it seems you are safely into your adulthood and *should* be able to raise a baby responsibly. I was 26 when I had mine.

Answer 8

I think you're at the perfect age. =D

Answer 9

I don't think age is the most important factor to consider in whether or not someone should have a child. It should be whether or not the person is mature, emotionally stable, financially secure, and other relevant factors. I've seen some of the youngest females give birth to a child and raise them very well and I've seen 30 year olds have children and are completely irresponsible.

However, I think people under the age of 18 are too young only because they are still developing physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Answer 10

Had my first just after i turned 22 (in 2006) and just had my second (I will be 24 in october). For any critics I am married and have been so for almost 4 years now.

I wanted to have my children around 23-25 because I don't want to be so old and tired when I have to care for them. (like my parents who both had kids in thier 40s and always seem so tired and unable to keep up w/ my siblings) At the same time I wish I had waited until I was a little older and more established. But my husband and i have a house and are both steadily employeed so I guess we are ok.

It depends on if you feel you are emotionally, financially and mentally ready. but 24 is not too young in my eyes

Answer 11

I don't think 24 is too young.  I was 26 when my son was born.  I think younger than say 21 is maybe too young.

Answer 12

Actually, it's average.

Clip from cdc link:  In 2000 the average American woman having her first baby was almost 25 years old.

But you're still young!!  You're just not having your first baby at whats considered a young age . . .  

Answer 13

It's young, but not too young. Far more important than age is stability. You ought to be stable, financially secure, mature, emotionally healthy, and married (being a single mom isn't fun).  

Answer 14

i think thats ur ideal age!

my cousin had baby at 22.

so thats alrite!

Answer 15

I think anything below 18 is too young, below 21 is still just young. After that you're an adult so it seems less 'taboo'. 24 is older than i was by the time i'd had my second son lol!

Answer 16

no young teens are to young  

Answer 17

33 for me