Update on previous question I asked about my dilemna?

Question

He called after a month of Sundays!!!! He was like what's going on? You been doing ok? I was like ummm, yes. I was like I haven't seen my period yet and he was like you need to go to the doctor because i want you to catch it early so you can have an abortion!! I was like excuse me?!! This is my body!! I do whatever i want with it but not an abortion! He was getting all pissed because i said what i did , but s***w him!! He is such a total pig!! What can I do if i am? I hope and pray i'm not!! Please don't judge me no one on this earth is perfect. He actually thinks i want something to do with him after he said something like that!! I need advice on how to handle this.

Answer 1

You need to take a test and see if you are pregnant or not. I will say that you sound very stressed about this situation and it is quite possible to be late or even miss your period due to stress.  

Answer 2

As you said "it's your body" do what you feel is right. No one can tell you what to do. If you have the baby put his name one the birth certificate so that he has to pay child support. That's what he is trying to get out of any way.

Answer 3

Go to the dr. and find out for sure. If you are pregnant there are programs out there that can help you. I am totally against abortion and all for adoption if you don't want to keep the baby. There are so many people out there that would love to have a baby and cant. As for the man ... tell him to get lost. You don't need a boy like that. Good Luck and god bless.

Answer 4

get to a Doctor,

blow him off and dont even talk to him

then decide what YOU want to do.

Answer 5

Go see a doctor and have your pregnancy confirmed. If you are, then congratulations, take care of yourself and the baby. You will need a lot of support from everyone around. I just hope they understand.

If you are not, then you know now that guys like him are everywhere. So avoid them if you are not game enough.

Answer 6

Get checked out then do what you have to do either way.  Take care of yourself first.  Don't worry about what he wants or thinks.

Answer 7

First of all you need to find out if your really pregnant. So I suggest take a home pregnancy test or see your Dr. for a blood test. Then if you find out you are he may come around or he may not. He's probably in shock and that is why he said that (please don't listen to him if you are!). If he doesn't come around then consider it his loss. God bless!!!