Upset and pregnant?

Question

im 16, my ex of two years left and has a new girlfriend. this is really getting to me and im upset. i dont know what to do with myself. i dropped out of school and im NOT going back so please dont say i should really be in school, im not going back and i have other personal reasons why im out. and all i do is read my ex's away messages and hes always with his new girl at the beach or movies or city. and it hurts me. and its not like i can go around looking for a new guy right now im pregnant! lol idk i just wishes someone ran him over lol

Answer 1

go talk to an adult. no one here can help you. I'm sorry, breaking up is hard, but this is just a minor detail in the entire picture. a baby when your 16 and no school? talk to someone who can really help you instead of looking for people online to agree with you and what a jerk he is.

Answer 2

Okay hun. You CAN NOT let him know that this bothers you because thats what he wants he wants you to be upset. If you just act like your cool with it than he will back off. Dont get to stressed because it could hurt your baby. Good luck!

Answer 3

hunny im 16 and u need to forget that dumb butt guy       stop reading his messages and get out with ur friends and have some fun then when u have that baby get out and find u a good guy that would care for u and help u with the baby     andi dont blame u i didnt go back to school i hated it

Answer 4

What are your plans, especially after the baby is born. Some ppl it really does take years to realize the should;ve stayed in school, but hey! It's never too late!!

Answer 5

Girl u r not the first,

Not get your self upset over a guy who left you knowing you ar pregnant.. I had the same problem and I was upset all the time and the doctor told me it was bad for the baby so I realized what he was all about and was glad he droped me. I'm better off now. I found a man that loved me and my son and we got married a year later. Girl keep your head up and after you have the baby you may want to think about going back to school or getting you GED, but after you get ever thing together.

Answer 6

Stop worrying about him- he will soon find out what means most to him, and its you and that little baby inside!

You just worrie bout being the best mom to him/her that you can possibly be- && soon nothing more will matter more than your baby

Answer 7

Breaking up is killer! You're torturing yourself by reading his away messages! Get him out of you contacts ASAP! Try to keep busy, and focus on your new tiny blessing. Maybe take your mind off him by taking a parenting class, or a prego yoga or swimming class. You could meet some other new mommies! Good luck!