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Ur parents are fighting in the next room and u are studying.how to get out of the problem

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i am totally disturbed by the behaviour and attitude of my parents for each other

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  1. u say that i want to study go out and fight !!!!!!!!!!


  2. They're just human, you'll have to shock them to stop them focusing on their problems all of the time.  Tell them your g*y or something, to get them to stop thinking about THEIR problems or tell them you're going to do something really sick.

    Tell them you are not sure if you can trust yourself to be a good person anymore.

    Then they'll watch you like a hawk, they'll worry about you all the time etc.,

    Oh to really stuff them up - go missing for 2 nights.  Then come back & NEVER tell them who you stayed with.

  3. You can go in the middle of there fight and ask them to take it out side as you need to study for school..and if they can't do that for you..find a nice place out side so you don't have to hear them..or even sit in a car..or call up  a friend and ask them if you can study there cause your parents are having issues right now and you need to do your studies

  4. You cannot change the people, who lack common sense, logic, observation and understanding. You will find more educated brutes and some illiterate fools. So do not try to change others including your quarrelling parents. Learn by their mistakes. You will become a good husband when you adopt understanding nature and acceptable attitude with your would be wife (life partner). Better allow them to go to h**l and to face their destiny. Start Mind your business. As you know the answer by now your self - Get out of the house as a first step - Make your self unavailable to them for a week as a next step - Your parents need immediate councilling. Better bring a lawyer and a psychiatrist to know their behaviour and limitations, as you cannot take them to them.

    MY PARENTS WERE LIKE THAT. When I became independent, I left for another city to avoid those quarrelling parents. They do not know the reality of life. They forget that they are going to die one day and the life is short and how to make it sweet. Sorry man! A day will come when you decide everything on your own to keep peace of mind.


  5. Still both of they love you. You being the common factor can play a vital role in this triangular love story. Don't be a muke spectator. Try your bit directly, innocenetly and communicatively, but patiently.

  6. Study in a lonely place.May be on the terrace or near balcony:)

  7. tell them to please shut up i'm studying and you payed for my tuition u don't want it me to fail all ur hard work will be just for nothing

  8. just ask them to keep quiet as its harming ur studiesor just go to an library to study

  9. Oh god. I can't describe how much this pissed me off. It was either my parents vs. each other or my parents vs. my sister. Just move far away from them. You can't do much to solve your parents problem. That is their own problem. Your problem is finding silence. So yeah. It would be better to just walk away to a different room. For me, i would storm in and yell 'shut up. I'm trying to study.' Then my dad would come in with 'The Belt' and my mom would be like 'Don't you dare talk to me like that' But sooner or later it would calm down. Hope this helps

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