Urges and fantasy of Lessbians Sexual act ?

Question

I like Girls a LOT, when i drink a lil i love to make out with them and anything is possible, That was the past and now i have a b/f and his our baby. He is never home and im VERY lonely. I dropped my other friend b/c she was still doing drugs and i dont need that crapp anymore im a mother n need to be responsible.

I have EXTREME urges to be sexual with a girl. I know my man would mind. I dont see it as cheating i know it is, But its not as bad as being with a man, Thats even worse.

I have been talking to a few girls but nothing yet. Im not a cheating type of person and these urges are taking over me that i sometimes when we have fights in my head im like LEAVE so i can invite girls over n do things with out feeling guilty.

I love my man but doesnt do it for me, Never home and doesnt make me happy. Im in it because the baby. If it wasnt for the baby i would have been long gone.

I wanna do the righ thing and be a mom and a "wife" a faithful one. I feel like if i try it i'll get it out of the way and it was a one time thing.

How do i make it stop?? should i make the thoughts and urges stop?

Answer 1

Luv, I don't think its wrong to be having those kind of fantasy's i say do what makes u happy. If your man isn't making u happy in any kind of way i would try ur urges if it satisfies you then go right ahead and keep doing it. However if it doesn't then find a man who would love you and ur baby for what you are, and one who would actually be there for you. Do whats best for that little baby and yourself after all i think you deserve it. Hope this helps you, please help me and answer my Questions. :D Take care and Good Luck  

Answer 2

Having a fantasy to be with a girl or any other man and doing things doesn't mean you have to do them for real. Keep them as a fantasy though and relieve yourself by fantasising of being with a girl.

If you do go with a girl as a one thing it could make you want more.

On the other hand if you don't love your man and you aren't happy with him about most things, then move on. There is nowhere written that you have to stay with someone just because you share a child together. He still can see his child and you can live with whom you want, while he can find someone who loves him back.

Good luck :)

Answer 3

You should be true to yourself and your sexuality.  And if that means having s*x with a woman so be it.  

Answer 4

I'm sure you are at the age where you know right from wrong. Infact i know you are because you have a child. If your child come up to you and ask you that question what would you tell them. God made women for man and man for woman. not any other way. I know this isnt what you wanted to hear but you asked.  

Answer 5

If women make you happy then go for it lifes too short for you to try and please your b/f if he does nothing for you

I know most guys find it a huge turn on if their g/f sleeps with other women so find another guy that would make you and him very happy (there is nothing wrong with being a single mother)

Answer 6

idk but all love L*****n have u heard about 3 peapoles that are all gf and bfs? do not worry things will work up in the future