i recently sent my MOH/best friend an email letting her know that she really hasnt been doing or helping or supporting me with anything for this wedding. she didnt even give me a bridal shower. i found out also that my gift from her (my wedding cake) has not been paid on at all since i sent in the hundred dollar deposit. i told her that I needed her to be there for me as I have for her since the day that we met. I know she has things going on but I never ask for anything from anyone, so it took a lot from me to write that email. her response was selfish and so very saddening. she basically told me that she didnt give me a bridal shower because i didnt register (HELLO, ME AND FIANCE HAVE OWNED AND ESTABLISHED OUR OWN HOME FOR FOUR YEARS NOW, WE DONT NEED ANYTHING FOR THAT). to me, that was c**p. she then tells me that she CANT promise to be there for me the way i need her because her MOH **** aint tight right now. I just let it go. i have done everything on my own since day one. i dont need her now. but today, she sent me an email and asked for names and addresses for my bachlorette party. anyhoo,, i am not a mean spirited person, i have taken this situation as a lesson learned and i know how to be with her now. she always does this when she is into a guy. she forgets everyone else. i have decided to let her remain my MOH and go forward with my planning (married 9*27*08) because she will be the one standing up there feeling like c**p because she knows she fell short and everyone else will too. I am wondering how much more awkward she will feel when she has to do her MOH toast.... is this the right direction to take with this...
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