Vaginal tear after intercourse.?

Question

GF has a vaginal tear? Help?

Well my gf has a vaginal tear, we didn't think it's from not enough lube or being too rough, it just somehow happened. We were really careful.. We've made love several times each month, maybe only once some times. I thought her tear would heal up. It hasn't yet, my suspicion is we keep reinstating the problem.. So we're STD negative, and I looked at this time.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/vaginal...

it says that it's a small tear and it's no problem. It's not supposed to hurt but it hurts her. It's not a 2nd degree cut though. Would 2 months be enough to heal this kind of problem up? I feel bad about this, and feel as if i should take all the blame. Please tell me if any of you have had this problem and did you need surgical repair or not? Thank you!

By the way, the site i used is about child birth, but the cut looks the same. So she says..

Answer 1

Well if she was diagnosed with a tear then I'm sure the doctor would give her some kind of antibiotic to reduce the chances of the tear getting infected and to help with healing.  If you are self diagnosing a tear, then I would go to the doctor, becuase it could be something else.  Or it could even be scar tissue from a tear that didn't heal properly.

Answer 2

It could be a tear that keeps re-opening. Tell her to apply some vaseline to help sooth the area and help it heal quicker. It is really important to abstain from s*x until she is sure it is gone and doesn't do anything too drastic to re-open the wound. Also, any tear down there can hurt, just think about every time she goes to the bathroom: there is ammonia in urine and that can irritate an open sore, along with irritation from toilet paper. She should make an appointment with her GYN to make sure it isn't infected- there could possibly be something else going on.

Good Luck and I hope she feels better!

Answer 3

Vaginal injury is very common, but not to worry as it will heal very quickly.   Give it about 3-4 days.   However, if the injury is more extensive, it can continue to be tender for quite some time.    

Answer 4

it happened to me and mine healed pretty quickly...