Vaginismus Problem will finish marriage :(?

Question

Are there anyone who had a vaginismus problem before and solved it? How did you solve please? And how long did it take?

Answer 1

mmh not sure whats that

Answer 2

My wife had this when she was prego and it really sucked for her, we didn't have any intercourse for a long time and if we did it would her to the point where she would almost cry.. The best thing you can do is seek professional help and wait it out. It sucks but not worth ending a marrage, s*x isn't everything in a relationship, atleast it's not an excuse to get a divorce.. Good luck

Answer 3

Interesting question.

I think that couples should really take their wedding vows seriously (assuming traditional ones being used) and think of situations like this.

I had to come to a point in my marriage where I had to decide that if something happened to my wife and s*x was off the table for a season that I would not stray or seek to end my marriage.

I pray that your husband can say the same. I don't know how to address vaginismus, but I have included a website that addresses your question in more detail.

Answer 4

I had this disorder.  It was eventually resolved through dilator therapy.  You can order dilators off the aforementioned website www.vaginismus.com

How long my recovery took is irrelevant because everyone is different, so their approach to the therapy is different.  Just use those dilators everyday and you'll be off to a good start.

Answer 5

WTF is a vaginismus ????????

Go away .

Answer 6

Vaginismus caused me to go into deep depression.  You are not alone.

First thing, as someone above mentioned, is to go to www.vaginismus.com and order the dilator set.  I (who had never even been able to use a tampon) was able to successful use the dilators.  The hardest part is just starting to use them- but it does get easier with time and use.  When you order the kit it comes with a very helpful guide.

This is something that CAN be over conquered, and does not have to ruin a marriage.  I was lucky to have a very supportive husband through all of this.  First step is to order the dilators.

Once I started using the dilators it took me a little over a month.  But everyone is different.  

Good Luck, you'll get through this : )