Verbal Abuse Waaaaaaaaaaaaat!! :O

Question

Is It Bad To Be Ina Relationship Where We Are Both Verbally Abusive To Each Other? & He Says I Treat Him Like s**z & I Call Him Names A Lot But He Calls Me A Bish A Lot Too!

Bad, YEAH?

Answer 1

Since you know it is verbal abuse, why still do it? For fun? You can have fun any other way. Verbal abuse is plain disrespect. If not to you and your partner, it is to others who happen to hear what is said.

If you think it is bad, then stop it now or you never will.  

Answer 2

yeah it's bad

Answer 3

lol my 2 of my friends are going out they call each other names all the time! :D

Answer 4

yea its terrible, dont call anyone names its immature and shows lack of self control

Answer 5

Yes, it is a pattern that you need to break.  It stops the relationship from reaching its full potential, and if you don't take the time now to learn effective communication it will always be an issue, and the problem itself will never be solved.  Calling you a B tells you he is angry, but not why, or what he needs or how he is feeling, that is the info you need to move forward with.

Answer 6

Yeah, its bad. Get out while you can. It will never get better, and the longer you wait the harder it will be. You'll destroy each other.

Answer 7

YEs it is bad and probably will only get worse. Do both of you a big favor and break it off! You will be happier down the road.